I want a relationship of mutual understanding and respect, one in which we both support each other and inspire one another as well.
I'm comfortable being dressed well, but love T-shirts, tattoos, jeans and sandals. I can cook clean and even iron.....and I do them all very well!! I'm a happy person, financially stable, independent, baggage free, optimistic and I love life. I'm fun loving yet responsible.
I'm an open the door, pull out your chair, help with your coat gentleman. I'm the guy you can lean on, count on to always be there. To pick you up, dust you off, carry you if need be.
I'm confident and a little sarcastic, not arrogant and rude. I'm a leader not a follower. I'll choose right over popular every time. I'm a type A personality but I take great care in tempering it with patience and tolerance. I'm very self aware and comfortable in my own skin.
I'm not without flaws, but I recognize them, own them and work on them.
I am attentive, very sweet and.............................. irresistibly charming.
As for online dating.......not completely sold. People treat these sites like a smorgasbord, a buffet or a dessert tray. I'm not looking for todays special.................I'm looking for someone special.
I like women that are feminine, but with an edge and classy but sassy. Grounded, sensible, responsible, sensual, sexy and mature are musts. Women only, no girls.
My philosophy on dating and love basically boils down to 2 simple quotes:
1) If you want something you've never had, you must be willing to do things you've never done.
2) "We can't attract big bold open true generous love into our lives if we are shrinking and playing small, safe or normal."