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38 M New York, NY

I’m looking for

  • Men who like men
  • Ages 28–42
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 3:14am
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Graduated from university
Entertainment / Media
Relationship Status
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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I've got a nice apartment in a good neighborhood, a cool job that gets me free theater tickets, and a bunch of amusing friends. So even if I'm less charming than I think I am, the perks of dating me ain't bad.

Less glibly: I'm most likely looking for something more serious than not, with a guy who is confident and comfortable with his life and is looking for the same. Being a grown-up with a real job is probably a requirement, but so is the ability not to take things too seriously.

Also: ENTJ, for whatever that's worth.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Writing, reviewing, and editing; eating and drinking with friends; singing poorly but enthusiastically; trying to find good deals on fancy hotels.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Planning trips. Also, editing copy. But the first is more fun.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My charisma. Now stop looking at my charisma.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Friends; family; cliches, apparently; a good mattress; chocolate-chip cookies; exciting things to look forward to.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Seinfeld dialogue and Sondheim lyrics, though usually not together; exciting things I'm looking forward to; chocolate-chip cookies.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Either seeing a play, having dinner with friends, drinking too many martinis, singing karaoke, or, quite likely, all of the above.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Despite the whole witty-urbane-ironic-sophisticated-Manhattanite thing, I'm really just a nice Jewish boy from the suburbs who's looking for a guy he can take home to mom and dad.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're smart, fun, and enjoy good punctuation. A fondness for good restaurants, culture-based day trips, and beach vacations wouldn't hurt, either.