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  • Ages 18–33
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My details

Last online
Yesterday – 4:52pm
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from law school
Rather not say
Strictly monogamous
Might want kids
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly), Latin (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
About me? If you really want to know here's some homework for you:
1. The poem "If" by Ruyard Kipling
2.The song "Impossible Dream" from Man of La Mancha
3. The song "Broken Ones" by Dia Frampton
4. INFJ personality Profile
5. The Democratic Party Platform

Not satisfied? Okay, here it goes:

I have a lot to say but usually listen. I am quietly ambitiously but openly aspiring. I have strong emotions but an excellent poker face (at least until I'm comfortable enough to show my hand). I am passionate but known for my rationality. I have an old sould but a youthful spirit. I am called an "old man" due to my wisdom, weird Midwestern colloquialisms, and occasional grumpiness) but people are often surprised by my lingering innocence and idealism.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I went to undergrad at Oberlin College, graduated from BC Law and am now an attorney in Boston (though it doesn't quite feel real yet). I have worked extensively with domestic violence survivors, and spent my first post-grad year as a Case Manager for homeless families. I am currently working as a child welfare attorney.

I'm still asking myself the deep questions of life: What should I be doing? Where do I belong? and Who do I belong with?

Socially, I feel my life is just beginning. I'm a social introvert. It can be draining but I enjoy going out or staying in with friends.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Introspection and as a result being easily distracted. I've been dubbed the "absent-minded professor" by several people. I often get lost in my thoughts, forget to respond to messages, lock my keys in the car with the engine still running, and occasionally walk into trees or low hanging branches.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Who knows? I would say my shyness but I have learned that I have a fairly good poker face and many people see me as perfectly calm and sociable even when I'm really nervous.

Physically, I receive the most comments on my eyes, lips, hair, and facial expressions.

But lets be frank, the FIRST thing most guys notice is my skin color. Ideally it wouldn't have such an inflated role in someone's decision to communicate with me but for many guys it causes them to either ignore me or start foaming at the mouth. I don't find either extreme very satisfying.

I myself find all races and skintones appealing, including my own. The heart seems to be one of the few places where it is socially acceptable to exclude someone based on race. We all have "preferences" but lets be honest about those that are shaped by our society's often racist conceptions of beauty and masculinity.

So to put it simply, I'd rather not be judged by anything you see on the outside. Get to know my soul instead for it always did speak better for me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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books-Growing up, The Box Car Children, Hardy Boys and Nancy Drew Mysteries. Some of my favorite books of all time are: The Outsiders, A Wrinkle In Time, Lord of the Flies, As I Lay Dying, Romeo & Juliet, and The 48 Laws of Power.

Movies-Old musicals, 90s era Disney films, movies with big explosions. Pretty much any movie that allows me to believe in magic or just something insanely improbable, like a whole crowd bursting out into "Hello Dolly" or a guy in a bat suit saving the world.

Music- Adele is favorite, second only to the Backstreet Boys. I also enjoy Bruno Mars (lazy pop), Leona Lewis (sad pop), B.O.B (Pop Rap), Sia (Australian Pop), Jason Mraz (folk Pop), Cascada (Dance Pop), Jesse & Joy (Mexican pop), Whitney Houston (Diva Pop), Gloriana (Country Pop), David Archuleta (Bubblegum Pop), James Blunt (Angry British Pop), etc.

Food- It'd be quicker to tell what I don't like because it's a much shorter list. Mushrooms and olives. That's about it. I'll try anything once. I Growing up in Ohio meant I didn't get much seafood but I love it, especially sushi and calamari. I think the French Fry is the greatest invention of all time and McDonalds has perfected it (Saying that leaves a bad taste in my least until I put more fries in it). Basically though, I'm from the Midwest, so at heart I'm a meat and potatoes kind of guy.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1) Empathy
2) Hope
3) Nature
4) My Man Cave
5) Angela Lansbury
6) The Golden Girls!!!!!!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Men and politics, definitely. My two favorite subjects hands down, though I often find myself angered and frustrated by both. I think incessantly and like a guy who can get me out of my thoughts..
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
having an intense argument in my head over whether I should go out and be social or grab a bag of popcorn, put on The Golden Girls and call it a night.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
If you leave anything edible in front of me long enough, I'll probably eat it.
You should message me if
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