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jlhf3

43 / F / Straight / Single

Paso Robles, California

Her Details

Last Online
Jan 22
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 7″ (1.70m).
Body Type
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Very often
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other but not too serious about it
Sign
Aquarius and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Education / Academia
Income
Offspring
Has kids
Pets
Has dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently)

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My self-summary
I am a divorced, single mom looking for a man that I can be friends with first and then possibly develop something more. I am a confident, intelligent, honest, warm, easy-going, attractive person. I have shoulder-length, layered, naturally wavy, dark brown hair and brown eyes. I am looking for a kind, romantic, intelligent, attractive (something that is totally subjective by the way!) man that has some interests in common with me, but also has his own life. I believe partners don’t need to do everything together. I want someone that isn’t into mind games. I need a person who will accept my 2 young daughters and understand that they are a major part of my life. I miss talking to that special someone about how our day went and having intelligent discussions. I want someone who will take me out for some fun- dinner, movies, a walk, a hike, to the beach, dancing, or to see a band, or who will just stay home, eat dinner and watch a movie or play cards. I am very spiritual and believe in a higher power, but not very religious as I do not believe that any 1 religion or god has the answer to it all. I don't believe in judging others for their beliefs and believe that so many issues could be better solved if more people had open minds. I find politics very interesting and like to keep up with current events as best I can. I am looking for a man who is educated but it doesn't have to be in the traditional sense. Interested? I look forward to hearing from you and getting to know you better! Thanks!

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What I’m doing with my life
I teach and I am a mom. Besides spending time with my girls, I also like to garden, read, go for walks, go to the beach, watch tv, watch sports, listen to music, work on scrapbooks, photography, play card and board games. . . . Monterey Aquarium is one of my favorite places.

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I’m really good at
Teaching, listening, talking, understanding different perspectives, being a mom. . .

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The first things people usually notice about me
That probably depends on the person and what they notice. Hopefully it is good :-)

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Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Mostly fiction, Grisham, Anne Perry, Sue Grafton, Nicholas Sparks, Pablo Neruda, Jane Austen, Willa Cather, Harry Potter

Music: Most kinds but most rap and heavy metal. I like country that has a real pop sound to it.

Food: Real Mexican, Thai, American, Chinese, fancy and casual, dives and nice restaurants, as well as home-cooked

Movies: Inside Man, How to Train a Dragon, The Usual Suspects, The Shawshank Redemption, Fried Green Tomatoes, Fly Away Home, Waking Ned Devine, A Walk in the Clouds, To Kill a Mockingbird, Nim's Island. . . My taste is pretty diverse!

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The six things I could never do without
My daughters
chocolate
sleep
wine
cozy sheets
pets

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I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to raise my girls the right way, my friends, nature, things that are going on in the world.. .

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On a typical Friday night I am
Most of the time, taking it easy after a work week, glass of wine, movie or a good book.

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The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I don't generally post private things online, lol.

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I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 33-49
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
you find my profile interesting!

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