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jlmars13

32 M Oakland, CA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 22–32
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Asian
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity, but not too serious about it
Sign
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Science / Engineering
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Ok, here comes the pitch where I glorify myself and say how awesome I am...I am totally awesome in everything that I'm not awesome at!

In all honesty I find it hard to just give a summary of myself because I find it a bit awkward and I tend to be a humble person. I like to think of myself as being open to new things. I'm a fairly active person, I enjoy playing sports and working out. I tore my ACL about a year ago playing volleyball and it's been a slow road to recovery, but I don't let it get me down! Being active and playing sports is still super important! Though on a positive side, chicks dig scars...right?? I've got some pretty cool ones on my knee now!

When I'm not being "active" I will usually be hanging out with friends, or relaxing with the TV or a good book. I like to think I have a quirky sense of humor. I won a whole lot of "Thanks for participating" awards growing up, which is probably one of the reasons why I have a huge drive to become better in everything I do.

I spend a lot of my free time with friends and family. I'm lucky to have a large extended family so we grew up very close. They've had a significant hand in shaping the person I've become, and still continue to be large influence.

Something I believe is that there's no such thing as the "friend zone" because I think when you find that special someone, they become your best friend.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I work full time in SF though sometimes it's more like ALL the time. I try to hang out with friends and family on weekends. I consider myself a very motivated person, and always strive to become a better person in work and other areas of life.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Learning new things, solving problems, creative endeavors,
Sports - Bowling, Volleyball, Running, Soccer (Love it, but really bad at it)
Being competitive
Board games (or maybe that's just me thinking I am, cause my friends beat me a lot)
Video Games (Though I don't really play as much anymore, can be too much of a time sink)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I think the first thing people tend to notice about me is my smile or how animated I get when talking about things that interest me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Here are a few of my favorite things:
Raindrops on roses, whiskers on kittens...oops haha

Some of my Favorite Books:
To Kill a Mockingbird
Brave New World
Le Petit Prince
Song of Ice and Fire series
Lord of the Ring series

TV Shows:
30 Rock
HIMYM
Diners, Drive-Ins and Dives (I like watching it to prove how lame my current meal is)
Game of Thrones
Ancient Aliens (YES I DO!)
Glee
ESPN

Some of my Favorite Movies:
Shawshank Redemption
Sound of Music
Good Will Hunting
Groundhog Day
Animal House
Dodge Ball
Disney/Pixar movies(how could anyone realistically hate these!)

Favorite Music Genres:
I will listen to anything.

Favorite Food:
Love lots of different cultural foods, and totally up for trying other types.

Silver white winters that melt into springs

These are just a few ;D
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
- Family & Friends
- Internet
- My Car
- Sports
- Water (pretty sure I'll die without this...)
- Food (GOOD Food for clarification)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Ways to improve myself, both mentally and physically.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hanging out with friends, doing whatever random things we choose to do! Or just vegging...after a tough and or crazy week
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
When I watch athletes on TV suffer horrible knee injuries, I feel the pain...

Oh and I'm the most amazing pretend air drummer, guitarist, and singer...in my car.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
- You enjoy humorous, random, or intelligent conversations.
- You want to make a good friend
- You like to smile and laugh
- You want to play some open gym volleyball