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37 Hopewell Junction, NY Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 30–46
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Jun 29
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Has a kid, and wants more
My self-summary
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I grew up with an incredible combination of country crunchiness and city culture. My dad, an artist, taught me to chop wood and grow things in the ground and raise chickens. We took frequent trips to the city, where my parents both grew up, to visit museums and/or my grandparents in Sheepshead Bay. It's been a great life, and I can't complain. I'm smart, funny, and compassionate.

And humble.

I'm generally a happy person. Down-to-earth, but on top of stuff. I laugh a lot, and can find joy in just about anything. An optimistic realist, I guess. I'm affectionate and attentive, but like my space. I kind of get along with everyone, but spend more energy on my dearest friends than on acquaintances.
What I’m doing with my life
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Enjoying it, thoroughly. Trying to be the best teacher, friend, and mother I can be. Mowing my acre while wondering what house project I should start next. Spending as much time with my friends and family as possible.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Trying to be a good person. Picking songs for imaginary (or real) film soundtracks. Listening.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I used to think I knew the answer(s) to this, but I'm not so sure...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I love this! I could talk music, books, and movies for hours. Ideally over good food and drinks. Here's a sample...

Books: Walker, King, Burroughs.

Music: Pixies, Nina, Waits.

Movies: Anything horror, Tarantino, Apatow.

Shows: BBC Office, Orange is the New Black, A Game of Thrones, Girls.

Food: Carnitas tacos, tapas, Momofuku ramen.

Drinks: Bourbon (rocks), red wine, IPA.

Musicians I've seen live several times: Taj Mahal, Brandi Carlile, Citizen Cope, Ray LaMontagne, A Tribe Called Quest, Ben Harper, Pixies.

Places: Maine, The Metropolitan Museum of Art, the spot right in front of my parents' wood-burning stove.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My kiddo, my family, my friends, music, books, a satisfying career.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I need to finish one of the writing projects I've begun. Or start a new one.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Either home with my daughter, or out having a drink with friends. Live music is a favorite pastime...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I once thought it was a brilliant idea to show my freshmen the film Harold and Maude, as an accompaniment to The Catcher in the Rye. It didn't go over so well.

Louis C.K. Is my biggest celebrity crush.

Every time I watch an episode of True Detective, I have to look up and read a recap. I'm smart... I swear. (In any case, can't wait for season 2.)
You should message me if
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You love music, your family, and being outside. You're generally optimistic. You lean toward the left and the creative, but aren't impressed with yourself about it. Intelligence, creativity, and humility are extremely attractive.