Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Some facts about me:
- I am an honest and deep
- I am hopeful/hopeless romantic
- I absolutely love Tucson
- My favorite holidays are St Patties and the Day of the Dead
- I love to wear ties
- I am a song writer
- I wish I could go the rest of my life not wearing shoes (even if
I with a tie)
- I am currently married but we are only friends at this point. We
have three teenage kids that keep our arrangement I but you should
know that I consider myself as single
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I do computer networking support by day and a I am a college
professor by night (Computers, Rhetorical Writing, and Humanities).
I have spent a lot of time lately in my classes focusing social
injustices caused by "hidden biases" (basically biases that we may
not even be aware that we have).
I also play the ukulele and guitar as we as sing in a couple of
bands (one is indie-pop and the other New Orleans based Jazz/Funk)
in the Tucson area. I considering my voice to be my main
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I live my life with the believe that there is always something
amazing and/or beautiful to be seen and forcing a schedule,
although can be useful as a guideline, can actually prevent you
from encountering the wonders of the world that you didn't know
existed. Scheduling stuff is fine but I don't like to let it
Basically, If you just keep your heart, eyes, and ears open you
will find something that will make you feel blessed. There is no
need to over-prepare. When I need money for something it eventually
comes or it will just be free when I get to it. I call this the
Process of Life and I have deeply put my faith into it for most of
my life. The best part is that this mentality causes you to
appreciate the little things (which is the key I think).
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
What people usually notice: I am happy, genuine, big, and have a
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I listen to a lot of genres of music but to name a few I listen to
a lot lately: Nina Simone, LCD Soundsystem, Neko Case, Washed Out,
Leonard Cohen, the Roots, and music from the 1930s. I have been
listening to a lot of Nick Cave lately too.
I also listen to a lot of old school Cuban music - I guess I just
have a weird connection with Cuba for some reason but I have never
My favorite song is Marley's "Waiting in Vain"
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Coffee, my ukulele, pen & paper, my phone (hate to admit that),
Mexican food, and affection
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
- The usage of fonts
- Word for new songs
- Why I have not deleted my Okcupid profile
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
On Fourth Avenue somewhere checking out live music and just
floating place to place
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am an honest person and have a habit of assuming everyone else is
as well (which has burned me on occasions)
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
The cat and mouse structure of OKcupid is exhausting and I really
don't like it when someone says they want to be impressed in any
messages they get. If you have any interest - just say hi and we
can go from there if there is anywhere for us to go :)
I am heavily drawn to smart, creative, and confident women and have
a strong attraction to musicians, artists, feminists, and those
engaged in education.
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