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41 F Myrtle Beach, SC

I’m looking for

  • Everybody
  • Ages 35–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 11:05am
4′ 11″ (1.50m)
Body Type
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Has kids, but doesn’t want more

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am a Sex and Relationships geek. I love studying communication and relationship dynamics. I am also really fascinated with human sexuality and spend a lot of time studying it. I light up when I meet other people who love deep communication and authentic relating like I do. For reference think: Authentic World, Reid Mihalko, Brene Brown, Alison Armstrong, Sex at Dawn, Non-Violent Communication, Dan Savage, Tristan Taormino, David Deida, like that. If any of these references land for you, we might have some things in common. I don’t have much of a community here in MB and would love to find other like-minded folks to hang out with, including dating, but also super ok with just hanging out and connecting.

I am polyamorous. I’m pretty new to it, and I already realize that if you ask five different people what their definition of polyamory is you will get five different answers, lol. This definition fits for me: "Someone who intentionally and openly creates multiple love-based relationships that may or may not include sex." For me, it means having deep, meaningful love relationships with more than one person. It means that I don't have to limit my affection for people. I can be affectionate in whatever way seems natural and appropriate and not have that destroy the other relationships that I am in.

I do not have a primary partner right now and would love to find one who lives near me; that is what I am looking for. Until that person comes along, I am open to allowing all new relationships to form organically into whatever definition we decide they are meant to fit.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am a self employed PowerPoint Specialist and also do some graphic design work. I am happy. I like my life. In the summer, I spend as much time at the beach as I can. I am openhearted and not afraid of love. I live a healthy and spiritual life. I am interested in body awareness, yoga and nutrition.

**If you send me a message and you haven't completed your profile or posted clear photos of your face, not just your dog or car ;) You're probably not going to hear back from me. I'm sure you understand.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening without judging. Communicating what’s on my mind. Being a loving friend. Understanding people. Noticing subtle details in others. Photography. Taking tests. Decorating. Research. PowerPoint. Quoting movies. Organizing anything. Oh, and baking oatmeal raisin cookies :)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Probably my size, I never cleared 5'.
I'm 4'11" and holding :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Feel free to ask me these questions privately if you'd like. If you are drawn to me because of my favorite song, movie or restaurant, we are probably not a match. These things are not a priority for me when considering a new partner.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Feeling connected to others
Meaningful conversation
Coconut Oil
Hot sauce
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How I can improve myself and my relationships.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My answers to most of the sex questions on OKC are set to public and even thought I set it up that way, it makes me feel vulnerable. The risk is sending the wrong message about my priorities. My motive for being here is connecting with authentic people who I find attractive.
You should message me if
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You should message me if :
You understand Polyamory
Others have described you as emotionally intelligent
You also value being authentic
You value open and honest communication even when it's uncomfortable
You are not afraid of being vulnerable