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41 F Myrtle Beach, SC

My Details

Last Online
Today – 3:14am
4′ 11″ (1.50m)
Body Type
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Has kids, but doesn’t want more

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My self-summary
I am a Sex and Relationships geek. I love studying communication and relationship dynamics. I am also really fascinated with human sexuality and spend a lot of time studying it. I light up when I meet other people who love deep communication and authentic relating like I do. For reference think: Authentic World, Reid Mihalko, Brene Brown, Alison Armstrong, Sex at Dawn, Non-Violent Communication, Dan Savage, Tristan Taormino, David Deida, like that. If any of these references land for you, we might have some things in common. I don’t have much of a community here in MB and would love to find other like-minded folks to hang out with, including dating, but also super ok with just hanging out and connecting.

I am polyamorous. I’m pretty new to it, but I already realize that if you ask five different people what their definition of polyamory is you will get five different answers, lol. This definition fits for me: "Someone who intentionally and openly creates multiple love-based relationships that may or may not include sex." For me, it means having deep, meaningful love relationships with more than one person. It means that I don't have to limit my affection for people. I can be affectionate in whatever way seems natural and appropriate and not have that destroy the other relationships that I am in.

Also, I feel like I have to include a disclosure that I'm not on OKC looking for hook-ups. Some people will read that I study sex and am Polyamorous and misinterpret my priorities.

Update: June 2013
I do not have a primary partner right now and would love to find one who lives near me, that is what I am looking for. Until that person comes along, I am open to allowing all new relationships to form organically into whatever definition we decide they are meant to fit.
What I’m doing with my life
I am happy. I like my life. I am an independent contractor, I do marketing support for a kitchen company. I am also back in school working on a second degree, this time for graphic design. This year I set an intention to expand my circle of friends and hopefully, love interests and build some quality relationships with people close to home. In the summer time I spend as much time as possible at the beach, it is my happy place. I spend time learning body awareness, studying photography, teaching myself sewing, I took up rebounding and yoga and am learning about nutrition. I eat a mostly alkaline diet, practice meditation and various forms of NLP and I love baseball! I'm also working my way through P90X and supplementing it with Insanity.

**If you send me a message and you haven't completed your profile or posted clear photos of your face, not just your dog or car ;) I will not reply. I'm sure you understand.
I’m really good at
Listening without judging. Communicating what’s on my mind. Being a loving friend. Understanding people. Noticing subtle details in others. Photography. Taking tests. Decorating. Research. PowerPoint. Quoting movies. Organizing anything. Oh, and baking oatmeal raisin cookies :)
The first things people usually notice about me
Probably my size, I never cleared 5'.
I'm 4'11" and holding :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Feel free to ask me these questions privately if you'd like. If you are drawn to me because of my favorite song, movie or restaurant, we are probably not a match. These things are not a priority for me when considering a new partner.
The six things I could never do without
Feeling connected to others
My sister
Coconut Oil
Hot sauce
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How I can improve myself and my relationships.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
My answers to most of the sex questions on OKC are set to public and even thought I set it up that way, it makes me feel vulnerable. The risk is sending the wrong message about my priorities. My motive for being here is connecting with authentic people who I find attractive.
I’m looking for
  • Everybody
  • Ages 35–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You should message me if :
You understand Polyamory
Others have described you as emotionally intelligent
You also value being authentic
You value open and honest communication even when it's uncomfortable
You are not afraid of being vulnerable