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jmmcaleer

42 Mishawaka, IN Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 30–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 3:11pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
Trying to quit
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism, and laughing about it
Sign
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Education
Income
$50,000–$60,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Yep… Just what in the world to write to come across as fairly interesting while at the same time not looking like a completely self-absorbed knob? Beats me, as I normally find out about people through conversation as opposed to a few lines of text on a website, but I suppose you have to start somewhere right?

I just recently moved to Mishawaka although I was born, raised, and spent more than thirty years on the northwest side of Chicago. I spent the last eight years living in Mesa, AZ prior to moving back to the Midwest.

I normally spend about half of the month on the road delivering vehicles all across the country and I invest some of my other free time traveling to conventions and trade shows ; obviously I enjoy meeting folks all over the US and seeing plenty of the sites. Since I'm self-employed, I get to make my own schedule and luckily don't have a boss hovering over my head. As far as the conventions and trade shows, I run a website which is devoted to what people like to consider “geek culture” so tend to be checking out movies, comics, games, and the like before the rest of the public gets their hands on them. While this probably sounds pretty sweet (and, truth be told, it is) it also means I invest a lot of time into shooting video and writing up articles for my site.

This boils down to not spending a lot of time at home and being on the go quite a bit. Funny enough all of this probably makes me much more appealing, since so much is usually cooking in my world I don’t have a lot of time to be bothering someone else with what might be wrong with their world. I’m not trying to say I’m too busy to care about or to invest myself in someone else’s life (I do it all the time) but I’m not looking to complete anyone nor need someone to complete me.

I’m kind of a big kid at heart what with the comics and games and so forth but that doesn’t mean I don’t conduct myself as an adult. I take the responsibilities of life seriously so it isn’t as if I live in my parent’s basement, need to borrow someone’s car, or scrape by to meet day-to-day needs. I suppose I get to enjoy being a big kid, and get to run a website devoted to frivolous things, because I take such a hard stand as far as getting work done and paying bills on time. Yeah, I’m pretty old school in that respect.

I will say I’m a “Blue Stater” through and through and a practicing atheist and I know that doesn’t play very well here in Indiana. As far as god, I’m not overly concerned with people’s beliefs as long as they aren’t preaching hatred against anyone who isn’t like them - I don’t think “the gays” are going to Hell; I don’t think anyone not subscribed to a particular religion is better or worse than the next; I don’t believe you have any better answers about why we’re here than anyone else.

I have no interest in pulling a Sam Harris in telling anyone why their faith is wrong. I just don’t have time to jig and dance with people who want to find excuses for their own insecurities and bigotry in some words (possibly) written thousands of years ago; I guarantee if there is a god he/she will be much happier with me doing my best to live life to the fullest, and benefiting my fellow man, than someone who rained piss and vinegar on those who were different.

Or, in other words, don’t let the fact I’m a nonbeliever scare you since what god you may or may not follow means a lot less to me than in your trying to be a good human being. Hopefully you’ll give me that same benefit.

Open and honest is my bag of tricks, and I think I’m pretty well grounded in reality for the most part. I’m not a guy or a dude but a man. Lately I’ve found plenty of boys in the world (regardless of age) masquerading as men and that's just not my style. Not to say I'm going to judge other people on how they go about life but I sum myself with a few lines from the classic 80's flick 'Say Anything'.
I saw the movie a long time ago but this exchange has always stayed with me…

D.C.: Lloyd, why do you have to be like this?
Lloyd: 'Cause I'm a guy. I have pride.
Corey: You're not a guy.
Lloyd: I am.
Corey: No. The world is full of guys. Be a man. Don't be a guy.

What more to say?

More than anything I posted this profile to meet some new people since I don’t want to do the bar scene and I know I don’t to come across as I’m in need of a girlfriend, since that’s surely not the case. I just looking to hopefully meet some cool people who might possibly share some common interests and where it leads is a roll of the dice.

Since I'd rather not have this intro run novella length, at least I've tossed out a bit about me so I welcome anyone who'd like to send along a "Howdy." I can't say I'm expecting to find some sort of true love online but I would like to meet new people and friends. I can say I'm a relatively normal person, fairly interesting to get to know, and at least capable of providing a laugh or three.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm a self employed licensed and bonded transporter. I also spend a lot of time on the road covering trade shows and conventions devoted to what people these days like to call "geek culture."
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I think that old term Jack of All Trades, Master of None applies. I can probably name more things I'm pretty good at than those I completely suck at so I'd rather not come across as a braggart.

Plus I'm quick with a joke or to light up your smoke.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I really do look like my photos... Seriously. Not saying that's a good or bad thing but at least it's legit. Something else that comes across is I say what's on my mind. Of course, I just don't randomly blurt anything at random and have tact, but I'm not one for wasting people's time by bs'ing them since there really isn't much purpose in that.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
All in all really wide ranging...

Movies: Casablanca, Citizen Kane, Doctor Strangelove, just to toss a few out there. Yes, I do watch movies that are in color though too... I'd say my movie collection is somewhere around 350-400 or so and i do movies reviews for my site so there's always something which need watching.

TV: Mad Men, The Walking Dead, a lot of BBC shows (The IT Crowd is classic!) - I know everyone says it but I really don't watch a whole lot of TV. Normally if the TV is on, I've got some sort of documentary or indie flick streaming on Netflix. I have to say I avoid reality TV like the plague and people who are reality TV junkies like a bigger plague. Sorry reality TV fans but if that's your bag of tricks I'll bet real money we won't get along.

Music: U2, Bruce Springsteen, Aimee Mann, Tori Amos, Wye Oak, Rush (don't bust my chops about Rush... Go see them live and we'll talk...); just about anything from someone who probably won't shoot me after the concert.

Books: Yikes! There's loads so don't even know where to start! I listen to a lot of audiobooks while I'm in the midst of doing something else. I tend to reread Stephen King's On Writing from time to time just to get some imaginative juices flowing and always bust out a little H.P. Lovecraft when I'm in the mood for some classic horror.

Food: Anything that won't eat me first and I might be tempted to engage in a little hand to hand to see if it'll eat me first. No offense but I'm a meat eater so I have no interest in debating the pros and cons of that with vegans.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The internet
A good book or three
A cold beer on a hot day (or any other day)
Close friends
Baseball and in particular the Chicago Cubs
An interesting game to play
Challenging conversation

Hey you got seven, so there's a bonus one tossed in there!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
...a plethora of things. I have one of those minds that sometimes moves a few miles a minute so there's always something cooking in my head. I'm flighty at all but I'm not much for blanking or zoning out either so something is usually going on in my head...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
A couple thousand miles from home. Not too many Friday nights are typical since I'm on the road a lot. If anything, I'd probably be hanging out trying out a new game of some sort to write about, catching a movie to review or just kicking back chatting with people over a drink.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I've seen more women naked than the jerkoffs who write books on how to score women. Keep in mind I was a resort bartender for many years so it got to the point I knew more about the rooms than housekeeping... I was still never a scumbag though.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
I'd say send along a message if you're interested in meeting a relatively normal, gainfully employed man - with a healthy dose of self esteem - who isn't has no interest in trying to knock boots or whisk you down the wedding aisle. Plus, as an added bonus, I'm usually good for a chuckle. Seriously, I can be funny as hell if you appreciate a good dose of sarcasm with your humor.