I think that one gets a better feel for who someone is when they are communicating in person. But I will try. I am a father first and foremost. I am divorced, and i have my kids 4 days a week. I am a college student, I love to have fun. After my kids, music is the driving force in my life. I play all instruments, and sing. I love artistic expression in any form. I love ,passion, and compassion, romance, suspense, and I admire beauty in all of its forms. I always try to look at things from as many perspectives as I can to be able to obtain a more open mind about all things. Having an open mind and being conscious and aware of my descisions are very important to me. I firmly belive that for any romantic relationship to be fruitfull it must involve two complete people. What I mean by this, is that if one person is seeking a relationship to fill a gap inside of them, or in other words, to complete them, the relationship cannot work. For love to flourish, both people must already love themselves, and they can not be dependant upon their partner for happiness, but instead they create happiness that is true and long lasting because neither person is draining the other. Love is an act of giving, and in order to give love a person must have the love to give. I have so much love to give, and I am looking for a someone to share it with.

I am trying to experiance things from as many perspectives as I can. Educate myself, and do my best to bring about change in my community and the world that will help fight the social stratifacation and oppression in the world today. I want to make music. I want to make love. I want to raise my children and be happy. I want these things but i reckognize that expectation and desire create suffering, so I am always trying to teach myself to practice accaptence and forgivness. I am not religous but I am spritual. So my life has more meaning than just making money, or surviving. We are all part of the cosmic consciousness and were on our way to unity and peace.

Music(drums, guitar, bass, piano, trumpet,etc..), Love Making, Parenting, Housework(being a single dad, i do alot more than most guys), academics, sports, skateboarding, snowboarding, looking deep into someones eyes and seeing their true colors, being me......

My hair, lol. It is very curly, some call it a fro, some of my friends even call me 3%,(like 3% chocolate milk).

Authors and Books I enjoy-Kurt Vonnegut, J.R.R.Tolken, The Dalai Lama, The Celestine Prophecy, George Carlin, Bill Hicks, Terrance Mckenna, Timothy Leary, I Ching, Power To The People by Jon Lennon, Alex Grey, Nassim Haramein, Carl Sagan, Steven Hawking, Dune, there is hundreds more... Movies and shows I enjoy- What The Bleep Do We Know?, Zeitgeist, Zombieland, The Boondock Saints, Robot Chicken, Metalocalypse, Family Guy, I basically like movies and entertainment that is funny and well done and passionate, but also that is intelligent, stuff that makes you think....Music-I LOVE MUSIC. All music that is played with passion and with feeling is good music and worth listening to...and almost all food is good to, i don't eat most fish though...

MY KIDS
COMPASSION
OPEN-MINDEDNESS
TRUTH
MY FRIENDS AND FAMILY
LOVE

ANYTHING AND EVERYTHING. I love philosphy, sociology, anthropology, astrology, science, mythology, magic, quantum physics, tattoos, i cant lie i spend alot of time thinking about women, IM SINGLE!, I spend alot of time thinking about all sorts of abstract concepts, as well as thinking about things objectively and going over different possible outcomes. I am amazed with people and how we act. I like to observe nature, and the machine, and the stars. I think about alot, I guess I'l just put it that way...

I have my kiddos thursday through saterday everyweek. Itl be that way unless my school schedule changes, for a while, so if it were friday night, or monday or tuesday night for me, I like to do all sorts of things. We built an igloo today in the snow, I like to try new things and have fun. Go to shows, drum circles, parties, parks, camping, all sorts of things! I like to mix it up and keep life fresh and interesting, im not however that way when it comes to women. I could be, and Ive had the chance to be, but i am more interested in the value and quality of the relationship. NOT JUST SEX.

ANYTHING JUST ASK....;.)

you want to chat, email, go on a date, or if you have ay questions about me at all...