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jmtosses

38 M Bonn, Germany

My Details

Last Online
Sep 16, 2013
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Used up
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism
Sign
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Job
Other
Income
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), German (Fluently), French (Okay), Spanish (Poorly), Latin (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I found my perfect match. This profile will remain active for some more time to keep an eye on OKCupid for my dating PodCast. Apart from that to be honest I'm not even looking for friends here. That might change but for now please don't expect me to respond to any incoming messages. To those who want to congratulate me - please feel my whole-hearted thanks for that!

Most of the rest of my self-summary is still current, though. I'm still spending a lot of my free time around awesome people being in a great mood most of the day. Like to party, like to hang out, like to be philosophic, like to be psychologic, like flirting, like to take pictures but also love posing. Can be alone but never feeling lonely. Got one or two hobbies and activities at a time - for now it's photography and getting in shape. Also just started taking piano lessons, bought a nice e-piano and now I'm enjoying every second with my new toy. About to get my French back in shape and mentally preparing for lessons in classic dances. I'm planning to be able to waltz with a French girl by the end of 2012. There will be an exciting after-show party following doomsday I've heard!

I like dancing and going out. Love watching movies and TV series. I'm good at making the impression I was disciplined. Like red wine and different sorts of beer but no spirits apart from vodka. Can cook beyond fried eggs but also very much like to dress up for a fancy restaurant. I like people and people like me.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm living by simple rules:

• Make the best of the time you have and be strong.
• Be true to yourself and pursue your goals.
• Become who you want to be and stay in control.
• Love yourself and only then can you be loved or truly love anybody else.
• Don't live your life in anyone's shadow and live your life as if you had only this one, despite what your faith might make you believe.
• Get to know yourself and understand your desires.
• Find out what you cannot do and don't do it.
• Develop on your strengths and talents.
• Don't waste your time with regret and don't invest into what you cannot change.
• Learn something new every once in a while.
• Of two bad paths choose the one you never went before.
• Leave your comfort-zone every once in a while.
• Always pursue what makes you happy.

... because I'm a simple man. *coughs*

This little video comes surprisingly close to my current mindset:
http://vimeo.com/34414313
I’m really good at
Listening, bragging, being sarcastic, making friends, alienating people, building stuff, work, photography, thinking ... well everything I like and put my mind into, actually. I'm good with people, I'm good with animals, I'm good with machines. I'm really good at being myself.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm different. That's what I've been told anyway. I might not be the most spontaneous guy around but I'll rarely pass a situation by where I could meet and be excited by people. I'm like a sponge when it comes to personal stories, perspectives, interests and ways of life. People will notice that while I'm in front of them, ingesting every word they say with awe and amazement.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Like reading Sci-Fi. My favorite authors just to name a few: Lem, Asimov, Clarke, Stephenson, Gibson, Zahn, Adams, Brunner, Hamilton ... and many more.

Enjoyed watching Dexter, True Blood, Top Gear, Hung, Breaking Bad and the like - but went off TV series. Chill out listening to electronic, pop, industrial, classical and dance music. Just put together a playlist of the music I enjoy for example at work: http://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL930763E885FA5ACE

I love cooking but going out for dinner just as much. Indian food, French, Italian, Mexican, Japanese, Korean, Chinese - you name it, I'll have it. I'm OK with baking, roasting, frying and cooking German, Italian and French food as well as specials.
The six things I could never do without
At the moment I cannot go anywhere without
- a camera,
- my iPad or
- my phone.

At home I couldn't do without
- my cats,
- my kitchen or
- my Mac Pro.

Since this is about 'things' I didn't mention all the people nor all the activities I could never do without.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I do think a lot about everything ... constantly. Thinking makes me happy. At the moment I'm wondering why all my better matches appear to be too far away?
On a typical Friday night I am
About half of my free Fridays I spend with friends at parties or events at the Shakers, Hausbar, Billa, Nyx, Pawlow, Painless and Wache. The other half I spend at home doing whatever comes to mind like watching movies, being on the internet or petting my cats, practicing the piano and just chilling.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Completed my 1000 words profile by repeating the word word word word word word word word word word word word word word word word word word word word word word word word word word word word word word word word word word word word word word word word word word word word word word word word word word word word word word word word word word word word word word word word word word word word word word word word word word word word word word word word word word word word word word word word word word word word word word word word word word word word word word word word word word word ninety-nine times. ;)

Honestly? I'm an open book. Just ask me.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 22–33
  • Near me
  • For new friends
You should message me if
Go ahead, give me a ping. I'm fun!
Hint: I like to hear how freaking awesome I am.

Ich beherrsche übrigens auch die Deutsche Sprache lesend und schreibend. Kommt vor, dass ich von Zeit zu Zeit hin und her wechsle. Seit wenigen Monaten produzieren Dorkminik und ich auch einen Dating-Podcast. Ab der Ersten Episode wird er ganz nett, der Pilot ist etwas langweilig: http://draussen-nur-schnittchen.de/

Disclaimer:
Don't be surprised or offended if I contacted you to make a remark on some minor detail in your profile or with your photos. Don't expect much after I made a compliment. I just like doing such things but I will always focus on who is close and around.

As a potential match I prefer your age to be ((my age / 2) + 7) or a little older. In any other case age doesn't matter much to me as long as our personalities mesh well together.