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50 M Oakland, CA

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My self-summary
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I am particularly happy outdoors, whether it's a hike on the Dipsea trail or from the Mission to the Marina. I travel, have lived abroad, and have checklists for both a ballpark and art museums. I enjoy good food and wine, sports, playing pool, art, and design.

Am hoping to meet someone who is as optimistic, adventurous, and enjoys life as much as I do...and has a great sense of humor. I take humor VERY seriously.

Chivalry is not dead, manners are second nature to me. I also think one shouldn't point out that one opens doors, pulls out chairs, etc., but so many profiles mention "what happened to manners?" that I feel obliged.
What I’m doing with my life
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Transforming a mid-century home into a relaxing eco retreat. It's great being close to SF and enjoying an assortment of backyard wildlife.

Professionally, I help college students get that degree with as little debt as possible, assist students and professionals in career choices, resumes, cover letters, and nailing the interview. Very rewarding, and hopefully helping them see their big, long-term economic picture.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
-Not sweating the small stuff
-Seeing things from various viewpoints
-Sex and driving, because all guys think they're good at these
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My sense of humor and putting people at ease.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Tolstoy once attempted to write a day in the life of a farmer. He wrote hundreds of pages before the farmer even had breakfast. It was impossible to cover every moment of the day. So is this section, from Shakespeare to current writers, far too many to list (English major).

Recently "Life" by Keith Richards, Steve Jobs and Babe Ruth biographies, and "Imagine: How Creativity Works." And paging through "1,000 Places to See Before You Die."

Movies, again, all over the place though I appreciate a good story more than lots of explosions. Prefer an ending with a twist over the sudden just-in-time-everyone’s-happy resolution.

Recently found a nice web gem, Comedians in Cars Getting Coffee with Jerry Seinfeld.

I enjoy pretty much all types of music. Food, no limits.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Family and friends
The outdoors
Bay Area weather, even when skies aren't blue.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The big picture and making sure the one go-around we've got counts.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
There's no typical, though often driving/riding into the city.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Great legs and a smile make me weak in the knees...
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 35–49
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
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You like to laugh, get outdoors, enjoy road-trips, want to travel the world, and are as comfortable lounging in the sun as wandering under city lights.

If you want to hike/exercise together, garden, or help with swapping out the lawn with drought-friendly succulents, there's dinner and wine in it for you!

If I star you, it's not that I can't send you a nice message, nor expect you to message me first. It's about giving you a chance to check my profile and if you like, star back. I like to think of myself as a decent wordsmith, there will be entertaining messages!