Chivalry is not dead, manners are second nature to me. I also think one shouldn't point out that one opens doors, pulls out chairs, etc., but I have read too many "what happened to manners?" so I feel obliged.
I have a good balance between a respectable public persona and a private edge. Am hoping to meet someone similar in that way, who is as optimistic, adventurous, and enjoys life as much as I do, and has a great sense of humor. I take humor VERY seriously.