Goals. I love to get things done during the day, and then relax and
enjoy the evening, be it out or at home....
Below is part of a compatiiblity profile I took from another
site..I was shocked, its pretty on target so I will post. BTW I
don't expect most people will read it at all...but if you want to
know about me its there...
You are deeply moved by the needs of others, but you know that if
you don't take good care of yourself, you'll wind up being of no
use to anyone. So yours is a thoughtful compassion. You strive to
be fair and sensible, taking care of others while also taking care
When someone really is in trouble, you like to collaborate with
them toward a solution; they do their part, you do yours. You
consider carefully, and respond in a sensible way; they do their
part, and together you move through the difficulty.
You seldom act impulsively; rather, when a problem arises, you take
your time to think through the situation. This contemplative
quality usually means that you'll arrive at a diplomatic solution,
one that's fair for the other person and also fair to you. It's
frequently a win/win situation.
Lucky you! You enjoy your own company as much as you enjoy the
company of others. You are a great conversationalist and thrive in
the wonderful kinds of connections you know how to have with your
family and friends. You also equally enjoy your own company,
whether sitting in a favorite chair with your book and soft music
playing or meandering in the woods by yourself. You like coming
home to your family or your roommate; but if no one is home, you
find quiet, solitary time to be just as pleasurable. What a great
combination to enjoy being outgoing and to be just as comfortable
being reserved. Lucky you!!
Because you are so amiable and relaxed, you are comfortable with
almost any group of family or friends. Whether they are pumped up
and lively or calm and subdued, you remain at ease. If someone
needs to take over the conversation, you are comfortable taking the
lead; you can also lay back and let someone else be in charge. If
the conversation gets rowdy, your moderate demeanor will often draw
it down to a more temperate level. If someone in the group loses
their cool, you will most likely maintain your poise, and if they
get nasty you know how to keep a civil tongue.
Everybody knows they can count on you to do what you promise to do,
be where you say you'll be "on time" and finish what you start. If
you say you'll chair the committee, you'll come with an agenda and
a clear outline of the tasks to be accomplished, give everyone a
chance to speak their minds, and then call for a vote on each
issue, schedule the next meeting, hand out assignments and adjourn
at the appointed time.
You like order and discipline, and use these to methodically
accomplish whatever goals you have set for yourself and for others.
And you have a strong sense of obligation if you accept
responsibility, you are proactive; you take it on with a
single-minded commitment, as if you've pledged your allegiance to
the assigned task. People know that they can depend on you.
Your personal life is also one of order and discipline. You are
likely to have a pretty firm schedule, and to stick to it. You make
time for your friends, but not at the expense of your work duties.
You can be talkative and funny in social situations, but seldom out
In some ways, you've got the best of emotional worlds. When
emotions rise up from inside you or are brought forth from a
conversation by a friend, you know how to engage them. You deal
with sadness, fear, joy, anger - whatever comes up - in ways that
are perceptive and flexible. You can adapt to whatever level of
emotion is appropriate to the moment. At other times, you are able
to cope with your emotions in a more reserved manner. Because you
are aware of what does and does not make emotional sense in a
particular situation, you will decide when it is an appropriate
time to express your emotions and when it would be best to keep
them to yourself.
All of this gives you a rich emotional life. You are free to
express your passions about certain subjects with appropriate
people. But you are also emotionally adaptable; if the conversation
needs to be more cerebral, you'll keep it "in your head" and talk
calmly through whatever issue is on the table. This emotional
awareness serves you well. You seldom get in over your head, either
by opening up to the wrong person or by triggering in someone
else's emotions they may not be able to deal with.