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33 M Minneapolis, MN

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5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Atheism, but not too serious about it
Graduated from masters program
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Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Has dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
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What to say, what to say...I'm definitely an adventurer. By that I mean spending several nights in the wilderness far from cell phone service. Or taking the bus as far away as I can so I'm forced to bike home. Two wheels is my preferred means of travel. I also love to run, lift weights, take my dog hiking, read just about anything (existentialism, cosmology, good horror - like Clive Barker), write a little, play some PS3...the list goes on. Rock climbing is new interest (the fake kind so far...soon to progress to real rocks). I love to stay active and keep a long list of things to do. Can't wait for summer to go caving (spelunking is the technical term).

I'm always learning also. I love cosmology, astronomy, theoretical physics, philosophy, and am learning about mindfulness. The way my brain works (for example): I'll wonder why a star I see is twinkling red and read up on the astronomy which leads to reading about the curvature of the earth which leads to Paleolithic art and primate evolution to chemosynthetic life in the ocean and so on. That's one thing I love about my job: it is rife with new challenges frequently which requires me to learn and grow. I'm a consultant in the non-profit and education realm. Let's talk about the state of public education in the US. ;)

I'm from Cali but have been in MN for over 5 winters now (I count by winters). Spent a few years in the South getting my Master's in Sociology and landed a job here while still finishing my thesis and never looked back. So I have nice places to visit all my friends. I'm a Social Scientist by trade, and many other things by night (that kinda makes me sound like a super hero, so I'll just go with it). Evenings are spent at the gym and exercising the dog most frequently. I tend to fall asleep reading a book or listening to something on Youtube (lectures, podcasts).

A perfect evening for me after a hard day's work is a solid workout followed by a dog walk in the snow, a healthy meal, and some reading that really makes me think before bed. Or a date with you. :)

Politically liberal but not all that interested in politics (love the Daily Show however). Can quote a lot of South Park and Family Guy, and Star Wars and Lord of the Rings. I get stupid pop songs stuck in my head often and have to listen to them over and over to make them go away. Man crushes include Leo, Ed Norton, Sam Harris, and a few others I'll share later.

I like people who are smart but are able to be a bit goofy. I'm interested in finding someone to build a meaningful, healthy relationship with. I have my life together and am mentally healthy and appreciate those qualities in others also.
What I’m doing with my life
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Working, staying current on education reform, thinking of better ways to serve my schools, learning, keeping the oh so demanding dog happy, staying fit, reading, video games...the usual. For my work I get to help organizations who help underprivileged people; it is very satisfying.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Conversation, learning, running, facilitation, walking the dog (if one can be "good" at that), laughing at myself...and flossing (in the literal sense, not as in being cool).
The first things people usually notice about me
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The ability to be serious one instant and laughing the next. And that I like to teach people new things and share ideas.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Too many to list.
Books: I have 41 books on my library reading list!
Movies: The Departed, Unforgiven, Inception...anything with Leo! I also hold Star Wars close to my heart and LOTR (if you know what that stands for you get +2 points). Anything Python or MST3K or just generally a goofy creative comedy.
Music: Natalie Merchant, Cowboy Junkies, Radiohead, generally slower and emotional and unique stuff.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Floss, books, an active life, a sense of wonder...that's all. Maybe not in that order...except for floss
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why I'm thinking about what I'm thinking about, where the universe came from, planning my future, where I'm going to travel to next, human motivation for certain actions, how much our brain does without our permission.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hitting the gym cause it's empty! Or out with you...awwwww. It varies really.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I get terrible pop songs stuck in my head and have to play them over and over again to make them go away. Think like Miley Cyrus bad...ya, that bad. The last one was that "I love you like a love song baby."
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–32
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
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Only if you are cool enough :) You generally care about others, including animals. You don't lived your life based on any "holy" text. If you are in awe of our visible universe being 13.7 billion light years wide. I want someone I'm crazy about and they are crazy about me.