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joeehartley

63 San Diego, CA Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 55–67
  • Near me
  • For new friends

My details

Last online
Apr 21
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body type
A little extra
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Retired
Income
Rather not say
Status
Single
Type
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
The canvas of my life is being repainted, so watch where you touch. In one section there is a new very small house in process of being reformed. A dog may be in it’s future. In another section interviews are scheduled for a variety of positions including walking and bike riding partners, opinion sharers of philosophy, politics, and life in general. In yet another corner of my unbound canvas the time fillers are forming: art, woodworking, reading, movies, theater, writing and room for much more yet undiscovered.

Over on one side is the whimsical, full of unicorns, dragons, and things unimagined; while opposite and in a world far removed is the serious, full of budgets, plans, and the building of foundations.

My canvas is complex and constantly being painted over and changed as new experiences happen by. Care to become a part of a dynamic landscape of color?
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Painting and exploring the things that work well together while eliminating those that don't.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Trying new things and new combinations.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Haven't you noticed yet?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I love to read and will read almost anything. I read mostly fiction including PNR (paranormal romance), some historic fiction and classic literature. I'm involved with several writing groups where I try my hand at writing social commentary under the guise of fiction.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My imagination, that's more than six all by itself, but I'll add physical contact with other travelers, this also can be many more than six when you think about what it implies.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to make myself and the people around me happy.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At home writing a short story or reading.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm no treasure. I have my own problems and am willing to admit them and work on correcting them.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're interested in developing a friendship, and allowing that to build. You're interested in a sensitive guy who isn't afraid to share his feelings.
You're interested in open and honest communication. I believe a relationship is doomed from the very beginning when we try to keep secrets.