I finally graduated from CSUMB! but graduating was only a hurdle and not the end of the race for me, I still need to finish my credential program so i can get a job as a grade school teacher.

I'm a pretty easy going guy, I like going to the beach, BBQ's, and bocci ball. I'm pursuing a career in teaching and enjoy making music with my friends in my free time. I play the bass and the drums. I'm pretty responsible; I get my school work done before I play with my friends, pay the rent on time, but I like to think I'm anything but boring.

I love my video games, I have a Chocobo tattooed on my calf. I love to go camping and travel, I've been to Europe and a few countries in Asia. I enjoy camping, hiking, and going out to the beach.

right now things are going pretty great and between a wife, cugarktten, and school, i'm pretty busy, but i'm always willing to make time for someone fun and interesting. I'm part of an open relationship that's loving and sex positive. We are willing to see others both as a couple, but mostly on our own, and enjoy voyeuristically sharing our experiences. We don't think of ourselves as poly and would rather refer to what we have as a "fun marriage".

I love board games and home cooked meals. I think seeing a gal doing her thing in the kitchen is supper sexy. but that is true seeing someone do anything they are passionate about.

I have written a test on here and i guess i need to clarify; I wrote it mostly as a joke and conversation starter. It is not the rambling life story of a bitter old man. I think its pretty funny, so if you consider yourself to be a person with a good sense of humor take it and have a laugh or two. Oh, and pay close attention to the question in red, that one's just for me ;)

ps: I'm a bit of a chubby chaser, and I love a gal curves. not that you can't be pretty of your skinny, but skinny does not equal pretty.

I'm currently working towards my teaching credential and I finally have my Bachelors degree. After my credential it will be a career in teaching and hopefully I'll have time to go back to making music with my friends.

I still dream of someday opening my own business, possible something involving food, but hopefully something involving music. I have a plan and now i'm just waiting to finish school and try to settle my life a little before i decide to invest in the chaos of a small business.

I know i call her my wife, but we're actually getting married this June and I am every excited.

I'd say I'm pretty good at most things I put my mind to, a jack of all trades. But that what you get from someone with a Liberal Studies degree and a teaching credential I guess, haha.

Strategising! every game has a strategy, and i will find it.

I want to say making music, but it seems so pretentious. I enjoy it, but i guess that doesn't mean i'm good at it.

That i will charm the pants off of you ;) and that I'm a hairy guy. Not the curly gorse pubic hair kind of body hair, but more like soft straight body hair. Like Austin Powers, but not quite that bad. If that's a deal braker, no hard feeling, but the wife loves it so there is no shaving it off

My taste in music is very eclectic. I love listening to my old jazz albums on vinyl and my power metal on my ipod. I used to play i a couple of death metal bands back in the day and would love to play drums or bass in one again.

Some of my favorite books are Ender's Game, Siddhartha, most things by Anne Bishop, Brave New World, and Raymond Carver short stories.

As for movies, I have a ridiculously good memory so I'm always making random movie quotes at inappropriate times. Lately its been a lot of Monty Python, Jay and Silent Bob, and The Stoned Age. Dumb and Dumber.

My Wife
My Dog
My Cats
My Family
My Friends
Quality Cooking; sweet or savory. if you consider yourself to be a good cook, then my ideal date is you making one of your favorite dishes, me keeping you company and your glass full, getting you whatever you need, a wonderful meal and conversation, I do the dishes, and then...

The future; where am i going to live after i graduate, where am i going to work, will i be able to find a job, what kind of living situation do i want?

School; Should i further my education, am i making the right career choice?

My wife; what can i do to make her happy today, how much i love her, how her date is going, how sexy she is, how lucky i am, remembering to but the seat down, when should we have kids?

And sex; thank goodness my wife is on the pill, are my wife's partners keeping her satisfied, FMF and MFM 3sums and how fun they are with the right people, how much i love to go down on women, and why is every girl i meet a bottom when i would really kind of like a top.

Doing homework, stalking friends on FB, maybe going up to San Jose to see friends. Otherwise I'm in bed with my wife, followed by netflix and sleep.

i forgot how to ride a bike.

You can use the edit button to write me a question and I'll answer it. :)

You understand what in means to be in an open/poly relationship.

There is something you would like to know that isn't already on my profile.

You're looking to beat the heat by coming down to Monterey for a weekend. If we click, then you'll deffinately have a place to stay for the weekend ;). I'll host if you bring the beer and wine. BBQ time is right around the corner.

You're ok with something fun and casual. I'm not looking for a second wife, but if we really connect than I would like to let things follow their natural progression of a relationship and see where they go, I'm not going to stop something serious if it goes that path. otherwise I would really like some fun friends to go out with.

You don't mind going to the beach, playing bocci ball in the back yard, boardgames and a movie, things like that; I'm a full time student so I don't always have a lot of time, so when i do have some free time I really like to kick back and relax.

Also, I really take the time to write a genuine message that is more than just a proposition to hook up, so if your really interested in talking to someone who is serious about making a connection, then shoot me a message.

and the whole curvy girl thing :)