Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I graduated from CSUMB, but graduating was only a hurdle and not
the end of the race. I recently finished my credential program am
working as a grade school teacher.
I'm a pretty easy going guy, I like the beach, BBQ's, and bocci
ball. I'm pursuing a career in teaching and enjoy making music with
my friends in my free time. I play the bass and the drums. I'm
pretty responsible; I get my work done before I play with my
friends, pay the rent on time, but I like to think I'm anything but
I love my video games, I have a Chocobo tattooed on my calf. I love
to go camping and travel, I've been to Europe and a few countries
in Asia. I also enjoy hiking, and going out just as much as I enjoy
staying in and striking up a good conversation over a cold beer. If
you want to talk teaching philosophies or best/worst school
experiences that is sure to lead to a lot of long funny
Right now things are going pretty great, and between my wife
(cugarktten), my girlfriend (Jessica0915), and work my plate is
pretty full. I'm part of a poly relationship that's loving and sex
positive, and enjoy voyeuristically sharing our experiences.
I love board games and home cooked meals. I think seeing a gal
doing her thing in the kitchen is supper sexy, but the same is true
about seeing anyone do anything they are passionate about. While
I'm mostly a home body I do enjoy getting out of the house.
I have written a test on here and I guess I need to clarify; I
wrote it mostly as a joke and conversation starter. It is not the
rambling life story of a bitter old man. I think its pretty funny,
so if you consider yourself to be a person with a good sense of
humor take it and have a laugh or two. Oh, and pay close attention
to the question in red, that one's just for me ;)
ps: I'm a bit of a chubby chaser; I love a gal with curves.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Things are really starting to come together. My first baby was just
born, started the school year in my very own 4th grade classroom,
and my little family is about to move out of a shity apartment into
a nice house.
Hopefully once we settle in to our new place I can set up my drum
kit and teach my son how to kick ass and rock out.
I still dream of someday opening my own business, possible
something involving food, but hopefully something involving music.
I have a plan and now i'm just waiting to settle my life a little
before I decide to invest in the chaos of a small business.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Remembering to put the seat down :)
I'd say I'm pretty good at most things I put my mind to; jack of
all trades, master of none :-P. But thats what you get with a
Liberal Studies major and a teaching credential I guess,
Strategising! every game has a strategy, and I will find it.
I want to say making music, but it seems so pretentious. I enjoy
it, but I guess that doesn't mean I'm good at it.
Hopefully, being a dad.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That I will charm the pants off of you ;)
Probably my beard. I've had facial hair since I could grow it and
it's never coming off.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
My taste in music is very eclectic. I love listening to my old
albums on vinyl and my power metal. I used to play in a couple of
death metal bands back in the day and would love to play drums or
bass in one again.
Some of my favorite books are Ender's Game, Siddhartha, Animal
Farm, Bless Me Ultima, Brave New World, and Raymond Carver short
I'm always making random movie quotes at inappropriate times.
Lately its been a lot of Monty Python, Jay and Silent Bob, and The
Stoned Age. Dumb and Dumber.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My wife, baby, and girlfriend
Quality Cooking; sweet or savory. If you consider yourself to be a
good cook, then my ideal date is you making one of your favorite
dishes, me keeping you company and your glass full, getting you
whatever you need, a wonderful meal and conversation, I do the
dishes, and then...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My baby; Will I be a good dad, should I get something to cover the
corners on the coffee table, how soon till I can take him to
School; Should I further my education, am I making the right career
My wife; how much I love her, how sexy she is, how lucky I am,
remembering to put the seat down, when should we have another
And sex; let's be honest here.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hanging out with loved ones. going to wonderful sexy parties. You
should join us sometime. Or I'm writing a lesson plan for the
following week. Changing diapers and trying to convince friends to
come over and bring beer.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I forgot how to ride a bike.
I also have ocd, you would probably never know unless you knew a
bit about psychology. You would just wonder why my eyebrows look
funny sometimes, and its because I pull at them when I'm really
stressed. If you've ever known people who pulls at their eyelashes
or hair, its the same thing.
I'm on Fetlife if you want the nitty gritty, just ask and I'll send
you a link.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You understand what in means to be in an open/poly
There is something you would like to know that isn't already on my
You are interested in kink or D/s relationships.
I would really like some fun new friends to go out with.
You like going to the beach, playing bocci ball in the back yard,
board games and a movie, things like that; I'm a full time teacher
so I don't always have a lot of time, so when I do have some free
time I really like to kick back and relax.
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