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47 • Fayetteville, AR • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 35–46
- Located anywhere
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating
- Last online
- Yesterday – 2:32pm
- 5′ 10″ (1.78m)
- Body type
- Aries, but it doesn’t matter
- Graduated from university
- Has a kid
- Likes dogs
I'm recently divorced and was separated for a year before that. It took a long time for me to want to meet someone again, but now I'm ready and wanting to. Isn't it strange how the things you want, change as you get older. I find myself now looking for substance in a person or relationship instead of just he superficial things. I spent 20 years in the Army, and now i work with kids at a behavioral health hospital and go to school at UA. I usually enjoy different things than most, but i like to have fun. Simple things appeal to me, i guess that comes from some of the crazy things i did in the army and the dangerous places i went to at times. Simple doesn't mean boring, i like to have fun and I'm kind of a big kid at times. I don't do drama and chaos, and i don't really understand why some people seem to enjoy that. I am honest and will do just about anything for anyone. I have a firm set of beliefs and values, but i also like being around people different than me. Its boring to have conversations with people who agree with you all the time and have a the same views. I like people with opinions, is what i guess I'm saying. What really matters is having good morals and values. I have traveled all over and love to read and visit interesting places. I like doing things outside.
a few quotes i like:
"For every dark night, there's a bright day after that, so no matter how hard it gets keep your head up, stick your chest out and handle it."
War is an ugly thing, but not the ugliest of things. The decayed and degraded state of moral and patriotic feeling which thinks that nothing is worth war is much worse. The person who has nothing for which he is willing to fight, nothing which is more important than his own personal safety, is a miserable creature and has no chance of being free unless made and kept so by the exertions of better men than himself.
--John Stewart Mill--
People sleep peaceably in their beds at night only because rough men stand ready to do violence on their behalf.
A young man who does not have what it takes to perform military service is not likely to have what it takes to make a living.
--John F. Kennedy--
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