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57 M Ann Arbor, MI

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 30–50
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 10:22am
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
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Graduated from masters program
Science / Engineering
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid, and might want more
Has cats

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My self-summary
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I date pretty rarely, not that I'm not interested in dating but I don't have much faith in the process, particularly on-line dating. I figure it will happen when it happens. I've met some nice people. I can also say that I haven't met any crazies (knock on wood). I keep hearing about the crazies but either that's a myth or it's only the guys that are crazy and I don't date guys. I also keep hearing a lot about women who need that man to complete them. I don't know about that. I'm petty sure I'm all here and everything does seems to be working properly. I hope that the same can be said about you. I would like someone that I can share things with and spend time with, someone who enjoys the simple things in life. You don't need to have a lot in common with me but someone upbeat and fun to be around. I have a nine year old son who lives with me part time and I am focusing a good deal of my energy on raising him. I am a romantic at heart and love going to the theater and watching musicals or comedies. I like nearly all music and sports. I've always liked the old classics, whether it is rock and roll or music from the 20's. Lately, it's been more grunge than anything however. Drop C tuning-who knew? I love U of M sports, particularly volleyball. It looks like wrestling and gymnastics may be in my future as well. I stay physically fit through running and attend some of the local road races supporting causes that are important to me. I expect to do a few track races next year as well. There's really no way to tell if we're a match without meeting. If I peak your interest, I'd be happy to buy you a cup of coffee sometime. I'll always respond to your email. If you have children, they will be warmly welcomed. Thanks for reading and good luck in your search.
What I’m doing with my life
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I am devoted to raising my son.
I’m really good at
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being a good dad.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Women have said that they notice my eyes. That's good, I think.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I enjoy foreign movies, musicals, and romantic comedies. I like spicy food, almost all music and read a lot of self-improvement books.
The six things I could never do without
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1. My son.
2. Hope.
3. Love.
4. My mind.
5. Laughter.
6. Nature.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
why people hang around on this site year after year without ever wanting to date anyone. I mean, it's called OKCupid!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
at a volleyball game, playing a game with my son and/or relaxing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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is that I really am an open book.
You should message me if
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you value family.