I am irreverent, sensual, and curious.
My Self-Summary
Well, I guess I'm fairly easy-going, generally grounded, relatively
confident, intelligent, self-aware, a little nerdy, globally aware,
compassionate, open-minded, honest, and often irreverent. I would
say I'm passionate (but I don't take myself too seriously) and I
appreciate the beauty and sensuality of life. Love
travel,
adventures, and living through all my
senses...
I'm tall, have lots of freckles (they migrate from the freckle
farms on my back), and am very full-figured (big and
beautiful...).
I find beauty in a cherry blossom tree, am at home on the ocean,
and find peace amid a temperate rainforest.
While I have a successful and traditional career, I live my
personal life on my terms. I would definitely not describe myself
as traditional or conventional...make of that what you will...I
value honesty, both with one's self, and with the world. This means
living authentically and with integrity.
At the moment I'm interested in meeting people who are intelligent,
creative, easy-going, authentic, compassionate, honest,
adventurous, and thoughtful...
What I’m doing with my life
Living it...finding the balance between my work and my personal
life...slowly filling my life with interesting, intelligent,
wonderful people...
When not working, I travel, cook, read, write, meditate (well, try
to...), and talk (politics, philosophy, religion/spirituality, sex,
poverty, sexual orientation, living connected with the earth, kink,
psychology, cultures, and education).
I spend time with close friends/family, contemplate "life, the
universe and everything", learn new things, challenge myself, and
connect with intelligent, self-aware, compassionate, adventurous
people who might be able to challenge me to be more than I
am...
I recently moved, and miss watching the sun rise with my morning
coffee...
I’m really good at
Not responding to I.M.s from strangers (I prefer messages).
Being a conduit for energy, seeing beyond the surface,
communicating, forgiveness, being present...
And so much more...really. :) But you'll have to wait to find out
what...or just ask...
The first things people usually notice about me
Well, I'm often smiling, or laughing (usually because I see the
absurd humour in most of life), and I've been told that I have a
sultry voice...
My favorite books, movies, music, and food
I am a voracious reader, so my reading list is ever
evolving....
Some of my past and current favoured authors of fiction with ideas
that stretch our boundaries, or reflect a social awareness include
Ursula Le
Guin,
William Gibson,
Manda Scott,
Paul Coelho,
JRR Tolkien,
Octavia Butler,
Robert Heinlein,
Anne Rice,
Robert
Pirsig,
Richard Bach, and
Eden Robinson....
Poets who inspire me include
Gregory Scofield,
Beth Brant, and
Connie
Fife....
Writers of transformative non-fiction include
Stephen Lewis (
Race Against
Time),
Thomas
King,
Naomi
Klein, and
Wade
Davis...
As for the rest....I enjoy movies that challenge me to think, have
an eclectic taste in music (so dependant on mood), and enjoy a
quite a variety of foods (the best being fresh and simply
prepared).
The six things I could never do without
I'll go for nine....
A good book, moisturizer, my laptop, my passport, fresh ocean air,
hot or cold showers (weather depending), intelligent conversation,
intimacy, and people in my life to love...
And writing....it sustains me....guess that makes ten!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The importance of living life authentically...sensual kisses...what
makes people act the way they do...how we are connected with the
world around us...kink...why I have so many shoes...how powerful
self-awareness can be...our enormous capacity to love...the
sexiness of high boots....getting into mischief every once in a
while... and lately, the power of love...:)
On a typical Friday night I am
Either in Vancouver enjoying the delights of the city, or the
company of a good friend or two...
Or leaving the city for a weekend of quiet relaxation and much
needed quiet...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit here
Hmmm...a kiss on the back of my neck sends shivers down my spine
(in the best kind of way...), and the magic combination of
intelligence, creativity, and compassion, in a person absolutely
intoxicates me...
We'd have to get to know each other a little better to know any
more... :)
You should message me if
If you are the kind of person who prefers to live an extraordinary
life...
You can describe yourself with any combination of the following
characteristics: intelligent, adventurous, honest, passionate,
self-aware, articulate, creative, socially conscious, genuinely
caring, open-minded, compassionate, kinky, and sensual...the more
of these descriptors that fit, the better.
(Small-minded people with narrow capacities to see beauty in this
world, or see beyond their social conditioning need not apply.....)