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joelana

43 / F / bisexual / Available

Vancouver, British Columbia, Canada

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Height
5' 10" (1.77m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other
Sign
Sagittarius
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Education / Academia
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Pets
Owns cats
Languages
English

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I am irreverent, sensual, and curious.

My Self-Summary

Well, I guess I'm fairly easy-going, generally grounded, relatively confident, intelligent, self-aware, a little nerdy, globally aware, compassionate, open-minded, honest, and often irreverent. I would say I'm passionate (but I don't take myself too seriously) and I appreciate the beauty and sensuality of life. Love travel, adventures, and living through all my senses...

I'm tall, have lots of freckles (they migrate from the freckle farms on my back), and am very full-figured (big and beautiful...).

I find beauty in a cherry blossom tree, am at home on the ocean, and find peace amid a temperate rainforest.

While I have a successful and traditional career, I live my personal life on my terms. I would definitely not describe myself as traditional or conventional...make of that what you will...I value honesty, both with one's self, and with the world. This means living authentically and with integrity.

At the moment I'm interested in meeting people who are intelligent, creative, easy-going, authentic, compassionate, honest, adventurous, and thoughtful...

What I’m doing with my life

Living it...finding the balance between my work and my personal life...slowly filling my life with interesting, intelligent, wonderful people...

When not working, I travel, cook, read, write, meditate (well, try to...), and talk (politics, philosophy, religion/spirituality, sex, poverty, sexual orientation, living connected with the earth, kink, psychology, cultures, and education).

I spend time with close friends/family, contemplate "life, the universe and everything", learn new things, challenge myself, and connect with intelligent, self-aware, compassionate, adventurous people who might be able to challenge me to be more than I am...

I recently moved, and miss watching the sun rise with my morning coffee...

I’m really good at

Not responding to I.M.s from strangers (I prefer messages).

Being a conduit for energy, seeing beyond the surface, communicating, forgiveness, being present...

And so much more...really. :) But you'll have to wait to find out what...or just ask...

The first things people usually notice about me

Well, I'm often smiling, or laughing (usually because I see the absurd humour in most of life), and I've been told that I have a sultry voice...

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

I am a voracious reader, so my reading list is ever evolving....

Some of my past and current favoured authors of fiction with ideas that stretch our boundaries, or reflect a social awareness include Ursula Le Guin, William Gibson, Manda Scott, Paul Coelho, JRR Tolkien, Octavia Butler, Robert Heinlein, Anne Rice, Robert Pirsig, Richard Bach, and Eden Robinson....

Poets who inspire me include Gregory Scofield, Beth Brant, and Connie Fife....

Writers of transformative non-fiction include Stephen Lewis (Race Against Time), Thomas King, Naomi Klein, and Wade Davis...

As for the rest....I enjoy movies that challenge me to think, have an eclectic taste in music (so dependant on mood), and enjoy a quite a variety of foods (the best being fresh and simply prepared).

The six things I could never do without

I'll go for nine....

A good book, moisturizer, my laptop, my passport, fresh ocean air, hot or cold showers (weather depending), intelligent conversation, intimacy, and people in my life to love...

And writing....it sustains me....guess that makes ten!

I spend a lot of time thinking about

The importance of living life authentically...sensual kisses...what makes people act the way they do...how we are connected with the world around us...kink...why I have so many shoes...how powerful self-awareness can be...our enormous capacity to love...the sexiness of high boots....getting into mischief every once in a while... and lately, the power of love...:)

On a typical Friday night I am

Either in Vancouver enjoying the delights of the city, or the company of a good friend or two...

Or leaving the city for a weekend of quiet relaxation and much needed quiet...

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

Hmmm...a kiss on the back of my neck sends shivers down my spine (in the best kind of way...), and the magic combination of intelligence, creativity, and compassion, in a person absolutely intoxicates me...

We'd have to get to know each other a little better to know any more... :)

You should message me if

If you are the kind of person who prefers to live an extraordinary life...

You can describe yourself with any combination of the following characteristics: intelligent, adventurous, honest, passionate, self-aware, articulate, creative, socially conscious, genuinely caring, open-minded, compassionate, kinky, and sensual...the more of these descriptors that fit, the better.

(Small-minded people with narrow capacities to see beauty in this world, or see beyond their social conditioning need not apply.....)