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joelcmiller

27 Brighton, MA Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 19–30
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Jul 28
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Strictly anything
Drinks
Often
Religion
Atheism, and laughing about it
Sign
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Technology
Income
Rather not say
Status
Single
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English (Fluently), Japanese (Okay)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Moved to Boston in last year and I'm loving it. Grew up in Northern CA, and went to college at UCLA, where I studied computer science and electrical engineering. I live in Brighton and I'm holding down a software development job in the Financial District. I can occasionally get a little wrapped up in work, but I enjoy it so who cares?

I'm a huge foodie, and I love trying new things; I'll eat anything once, just for the experience if nothing else. I also enjoy cooking, especially for friends. Growing up in California gave me an appreciation for excellent wines, but I also enjoy a tasty beer, as well as nicely aged scotch or bourbon.

I recently discovered that spontaneous travel is one of my favorite things; last fall, I booked a trip to Japan ten days in advance with essentially no plan, and it was one of the best trips of my life. I intend on doing that as much as I can in the future!
What I’m doing with my life
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Software Engineer at the moment. I plan on going for a masters at some point in the next couple years (MBA or technical, haven't decided yet). At some point, I'd love to start my own company.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Cooking, skiing, swimming, photography, fixing your computer.
The first things people usually notice about me
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That my hair is quite curly.

Or, if it's snowing, that I have the maturity of a six year old with regards to snow. I don't care if it turns into nasty slush as soon as it hits the ground. It's snow, and it's wonderful.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Authors & Books: Frank Herbert, Isaac Asimov, Orson Scott Card, Ayn Rand, Tolkien, Iain M. Banks, G.R.R. Martin, Alastair Reynolds, Stephen Baxter
Kite Runner, Without Remorse, Mastering the Art of French Cooking
I love that I get to read every day on the way to work now. Not having a car in the city has some benefits...

Movies: Pulp Fiction, American Beauty, The Usual Suspects, Django Unchained, The Wrath of Khan (ST2), The Departed, The Kings Speech, LA Confidential, The Prestige, 21, Serenity, Jiro Dreams of Sushi, Top Gun, Senna, Die Hard

Shows: Top Gear, Suits, Breaking Bad, The Office, New Girl, Sherlock, How I Met Your Mother, House of Cards, Battlestar Galactica, No Reservations, Top Chef
Note: not a fan of reality tv shows.

Music: I was brought up on the classics (Led Zep, Hendrix, The Who, The Doors, etc.), so that's always a fallback for me. Lately I've just been trolling around random playlists on spotify, and listening to anything that catches my interest. I tend to avoid rap and country, but am pretty equal opportunity about everything else (yes, cliche. but i don't care). Used to play piano, and I'm now kicking myself for ever stopping... but I still love to go to the symphony from time to time.

Food: I'm not picky; it's more about the quality of ingredients and the skill and care of preparation than what it's actually made out of.
P.S., I love cooking! It's science for hungry people.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Family, my intellect, my closest friends, modern plumbing (camping's fun, but not for the rest of my life), central heating (I'm in Boston; I'd die in the winter), my phone.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Places I should travel to.
The future. Not so much my own, but more how the world's going to shape up in the next few decades.
Cool new technologies. It's kind of my career, so I can't really help it...
The sheer statistical improbability of the universe having physical laws laid out just so, and our planet forming exactly as it did, and the fact that evolution brought us to a point where we have gained not only sentience, but civilization, art, politics, mastery of science, and so on. I could trip out all day on this stuff. Some people have religion; I have science.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Either enjoying a tasty new restaurant I've heard about or at a bar with some friends, and then whatever else the night entails. Alternatively, if I'm feeling lazy, curling up with a good book or an interesting movie.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I can do an excellent imitation of a wookie, as well as a frighteningly good gollum impression. you tricksy hobbitses.
You should message me if
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- You like finding delicious new restaurants/cafes/bars/etc.
- You enjoy stimulating conversation on a variety of topics
- You won't be alarmed if I suddenly geek out on something random
- You are not opposed to going on spontaneous and awesome trips
- You enjoy having delicious meals cooked for you, but aren't afraid to help out in the kitchen either
- You can appreciate an excellent bottle of wine
- You enjoy going on long and interesting drives (I've driven cross country twice, and loved it both times)