I'm a bisexual, queer, polyamorous male. I live in Den Haag, the town where I was born. I have a great relationship with Afrika3 (OKCudid username), we are together for 22 years, and we live together for 9 years in a nice house in the center of town.

I'm a happy person, I think there are not much reasons why I should complain about my life! I didn't pick up much trauma's in childhood, had great and supportive parents, I found nice people and a fantastic partner for life, I managed to become a successful musician and composer, with a form of music (experimental) that is not easy for the big public, and I could arrange things in life in such a way that I can have an open and happy bisexual and poly lifestyle!

And my overall feelings are anyway, that nobody born in the west has much right to complain. Think about how difficult life would have been when you were born in for instance: Burma, Iraq, West or East Africa. So, I'm mostly a happy and optimistic person.

I'm very active in the Dutch poly and bisexual scene. Currently I'm the chairman of the Dutch bisexual organisation LNBi (Landelijk Netwerk Biseksualiteit) to survive (For more info on the LNBi, see http://www.lnbi.nl).

I have a Live Journal under: http://www.livejournal.com/users/luchout/

My general homepage is at:http://www.luchoutkamp.nl

And, yes, to most of you I am probably a very old guy! Personally I don't give a shit about age, just as I don't give a shit about gender. It's important who someone really is, how he/she thinks, feels, acts, and not whether he or she is a man, a woman, old, or young. If you agree with me, we might become good friends!

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• -faery-

I'm a composer and musician, a saxophone player

See:
http://www.xs4all.nl/~xorluc/
http://www.powensemble.nl

music, reading, thinking, cooking!

Also I'm good at living ;-)

I think others notice a combination of sweetness, and sharpness.
I'm a radical left person. But at the same time I love liberal free thinking, and I simply hate ALL dogma's (left and right) and political correctness. I respect people who come up with interesting idea's and opinions, even when they are totally different from mine.

Too many different books, movies, music and foods that I like!
I am not really interested in styles in general. So my musical taste goes from experimental music to good popular, my reading goes from Nietzsche to light verse, I like old Mickey Mouse and I like Bunuel at the same time. And I love to cook dishes from all over the world!

A: Sacher Masoch, Luis Borges, Jelinek, Multatuli, Eco, Oscar Wilde, Cervantes, philosophy: Boethius, Schopenhauer, Plato, Ockham.

B: Luis Bunuel, Hitchcock, Marlon Brando, Michael Haneke, Lars von Trier, Carol Reed, Orson Welles.

C: Too many, but including: Beck, Beethoven, Charles Ives, Coleman Hawkins, Dick Raaijmakers, dj Shadow, John Coltrane, Palestrina, Prokofiev, Schubert, Thelonious Monk, Berio, Misha Mengelberg, Gustav Mahler, Beach Boys, Bjork

D: curries, South African cooking (bobotie), game dishes, duck, shezuan, aspergus, Spanish food, fungi porcini

My partner Adri, music, the sea shore, my (bisexual friends) all over the world, my mac power book, traveling

Music, polyamory, queerness, art, politics, philosophy

That depends. But I'm most happy when I do a concert somewhere. Or otherwise, cook for my partner Adri (Afrika3 on OkCupid) and my friends...

I don't understand post-modernism very much. I think I'm a little old fashioned in philosophy...

Sexually, I feel attracted to the androgynous side of people. But, the strongest arousal for me is when someone is intelligent, not depending on any gender.

And, I have some kind of fetish for food play and wet and messy games, as you can see on my birthday pic...

you are bisexual, polyamory, don't care about age differences, like more than sex only, are intelligent, like debating, and are sweet.

I personally think that the basic OkCupid test is a very strong one, that tell a lot about someone. I have a preference for a Gentleman or Maid of Honor. Especially the elements "deliberate" and "gentle" are of importance, I have great difficulty with people who are "random" and "brutal".

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• Kotodateru