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GateGastby

37 Santa Clara, CA Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 24–34
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Mar 26
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Asian
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body type
Fit
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity
Sign
Aries, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Technology
Income
$100,000–$150,000
Status
Single
Type
Monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Has dogs
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I'm easy to talk to, friendly, and laid back. I like doing new things and have a thirst for knowledge and experience. I grew up in the Bay Area, but have travelled to many places to know that the world is a bigger place compared to everyday worries. I'm a nice guy who stands up for those I care about. I have a myriad of different interests and consistently find myself stumbling upon random hobbies and situations. I appreciate the uniqueness of others and find everyone I meet interesting in their own way.

At the end of the day, I'm just looking for someone I can talk to about my day/their day and have meaningful conversations with.
What I’m doing with my life
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Visual designer and photographing cool new devices.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Losing things and being a clutz — and self deprecation.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm an Asian male who looks (and acts) a lot younger than I am :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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In terms of books, I love Haruki Murakami (The Wind-up Bird Chronicles), The Great Gastsby (duh), Nick Hornby (High Fidelity), Michael Cunningham (The Hours), and for some reason, books about vampires (The Historian is a good one). I specifically like The Count of Monte Cristo, Love in the Time of Cholera, High Fidelity (I know I already wrote this, but the book is so true), and recently brainless thrillers by Lee Child, Lincoln/Child, and Jim Butcher. I also read 'boring' old books on leadership and stuff.

I like movies written by Charlie Kaufman (Adaptation, Eternal Sunshine for the Spotless Mind) - speaking of which, what happened to the guy? Recently gotten into the Coen Brothers' movies.

I like Indie movies, a few blockbusters, gripping War movies that remind me of the sacrifices some make to ensure my freedom (Fury, Blackhawk Down). I watch The Walking Dead, Game of Thrones, The Killing, Hannibal and more recently Penny Dreadful.

I'm not a genre type music lover. I like individual songs. Some are by Coldplay, Radio Head, Deathcab for Cutie. UPDATE: I am a genre type music lover after watching Inside Llewyn Davis and buying a phonograph.

I love really good sushi, dairy milk chocolate (UK imports!!), green tea ice cream, sour patch kids, and juicy burgers. I should add to this list when I'm hungry...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Technology is such a part of my life that I couldn't live without things like my smartphone, DSLR camera, and Kindle (or books in general). Riding my motorcycles has also increased my enjoyment of life. Also, I couldn't do without friends and family.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I've been thinking a lot about time. I was at the beach today looking over the crowds and thinking that it was probably the same scene 60 years ago, only people are wearing different style clothes. The sounds of the waves, the random conversations, the laughter, we are all connected through time.

I've also been reflecting a lot about my life recently and what success really means to me. You need to get to the point where you can understand that success isn't in any way diminished by loss, and is more about personal relationships than anything that can be counted.

I've gained from loss but only because I've embraced it.

Then again, I recently got hooked on the quote: "If you have one foot in the past and one foot in the future, you're pissing on the present." Also the one that goes something like, "People won't remember what you did, but they will remember how you treated them."
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Haha. Honestly, these days I'm usually reading, working, or just chilling out with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I play(ed) Magic the Gathering
I suck at video games.
You should message me if
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I'm looking for a woman who isn't afraid to express her opinons, but has respect for those who think differently. She's able to socialize and adapt to those she meets. Likes to travel, but can stay at home with a good book and just chill. An independent thinker who isn't afraid to disrupt the convention, even when there's a chance of failure.

Somebody whose done with 'playing the game' and serious about being in a committed relationship, or someone who's looking for a friend.