Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
OK, time for an update. Since spring and fall are my favorite
seasons, it seems appropriate to make changes and updates in those
2 seasons. (Still giving thanks to the ones who gave me feedback,
advice, and suggestions; you really help make sure that what I
write is what others also see in me.)
Well, I like to think that I am an interesting man. I've completed
an orbit of my life; I was born in the country, worked and traveled
around the world for the service and work, and now I'm back close
to family. Therefore, I can carry on an intelligent conversation
with you about subjects from animal husbandry to Zoroaster and
back. We can either have a casual chat; deep thoughtful discussion,
or spirited debate. It's all good to me!
I love to have picnics and talks over coffee/tea/hot chocolate,
can't carry a tune but love to sing anyway, can't dance unless I
have some adult beverages to help me not care, and tend to
completely immerse myself in any movie I may be watching or book I
may be reading.
I am in a happy, wonderful open marriage based on trust and
respect. So, I'm neither looking for a one-night stand or the love
of my life. Everything in between is fair game.
I like to work hard and play hard. I love my job and parts of my
life; other parts could definitely be better.
I think that life is too short and fragile to worry about regrets;
however, I admit that there have been things that I have or have
not done that I wish I could change.
I think that a person should try to learn something or experience
something new everyday. This is not to say that I don't like
schedules, but you should always try to improve/expand
I love to watch and study people. I am extremely good at 'reading'
people. People fascinate me.
My username has a story behind it; I'm not trying to hide anything
from anyone. Get to know me, and I will tell you the story.
I'm back to liking the empath in me again! I'm a strong natural
empath, but that can be troublesome at times. However, it's back on
my good side again!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm focusing on working and living life to the fullest. A good day
is when you learn something new and make another person's day a
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
My job, computers, gadgets, listening, reading, appreciating
different cultures, and learning new things. I'm also really good
with my hands.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My smile, happy demeanor, and politeness.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books, movies, music, and food are my escapes from reality. They
recharge my 'batteries' when life becomes draining.
I love to read. I really love fantasy, alternate reality, vampire,
science fiction, biographies, erotic fiction. Favorite mainstream
sci-fi authors include (but not limited to) Philip K. Dick, Isaac
Asimov, Piers Anthony, Robert Silverberg, Poul Anderson, Orson
Scott Card. Favorite erotic fantasy series are by J.R. Ward, Lynsay
Sands, Laurell K. Hamilton, Sherrilyn Kenyon, Larissa Ione,
Jeaniene Frost, and Christine Feehan to name a few because you get
the best of both worlds (exciting alternate reality and sexy). I
love reading non-fiction science also, especially biographies and
As far as movies and music, my tastes run the full gamut of genres
depending upon my mood, activities, and time. I have movies that I
watch for each holiday. I love music from A to Z (alternative to
zydeco). Music does sooth the savage beast.
Food also resonates with me and is a treat to the senses (taste,
texture, smell, appearance, touch). I like to try new foods; but at
the same time, I have favorites that I always crave.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The actual items and the order of these items changes depending
upon how my day/week/month is going, so here is the list as it
currently stands (in no particular order):
Escapes (music, movies, books, favorite TV shows, etc.)
Work / something to do
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Making myself better, the meaning of life, alternate realities,
family, work, sex, world issues (actually anything that piques my
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Catching a movie, hanging out with friends/family, working,
reading, people watching, or just about anything that interests me.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
People who bitch about politics but do not vote really piss me
Ok, that one is so serious. So, on a lighter note, I like 'chick
flicks' that are romantic comedies (the serious, dramatic ones tend
to depress me).
You should message me if
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You want to have fun, be sexy, recharge your batteries, have a
stimulating conversation, like my answers/comments on the match
questions, like my personality, and are open to see where it goes
from there. We only live once, but if you do it right, once is all
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