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30 / M / Straight / Single

Tustin, California

His Details

Last Online
Online now!
Ethnicity
Asian
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m).
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Catholicism and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Aquarius but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Science / Tech / Engineering
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English, Spanish (Poorly), Vietnamese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
People seem to like me because I am polite and I am rarely late. I like to eat ice cream and I really enjoy a nice pair of slacks. Years later, a doctor will tell me that I have an I.Q. of 48 and am what some people call mentally retarded. [Bonus points if you know where this is from.]

In all seriousness, allow myself to introduce…myself. I’m a pretty laid back guy who prides himself in being a very open-minded and balanced individual. I’m light-hearted and have a ridiculous sense of humor, yet I am very introspective, mature, fiercely loyal, and career driven. I can be very spontaneous (I recently went on a two week vacation to South Korea and Hong Kong on two week’s notice) but am also very disciplined and responsible (I’ve been maxing out my 401K since I graduated college in 2005). I believe in pursuing your passions (in my first two years of college, I was in a band and was convinced I was going to become a rock star) while still embracing practicality and being down to earth (when I realized I sucked at music, I had to settle for an engineering degree – dull, I know). 50% of my humor comes from Family Guy, 50% comes from Anchor Man, and 50% comes from Arrested Development (apparently I’m not good at math, how the hell did I become an engineer?).

I recently ran my first half marathon and am currently addicted to learning how to play tennis. I enjoy cooking (and eating), traveling, and would like to pick up photography someday. I like to stay busy, try new things, and put a lot of effort into staying connected with my friends and family. As such, I’m constantly running around doing different things with different people. However, I also understand the importance of solitude and try to regularly schedule some time for myself to simply veg on the couch watching TV or reading a good book.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm currently working as an engineer for a heavy civil construction company and shopping for my first home purchase.
I’m really good at
I love connecting with people and understanding what makes them tick. I'm still trying to figure out how I can become a professional life coach...
The first things people usually notice about me
...is that I'm kind of a big deal? Oh no, wait, that's the first thing I tell people...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: "Sin Boldly" by Cathleen Falsani

Movies: Anchor Man (obviously), Gladiator, Swingers, Forgetting Sarah Marshall, Moulin Rouge, The Dark Knight

TV: Family Guy, Modern Family, Law and Order, Arrested Development, Chopped, Sports Center

Music: AWOLNATION, Avenged Sevenfold, Alicia Keys, Justin Timberlake, Linkin Park, Stone Sour, Mozart, Chopin, Zac Brown Band, etc.

Food: Mr. Pibb + Red Vines = Crazy Delicious
The six things I could never do without
Love
Food
Music
Coffee
The World Wide Interwebs
ESPN
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What my next meal is going to be...
On a typical Friday night I am
Tennis, dinner and drinks, anything with good company.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I once drove to Vegas in 3.5 hours on a Friday afternoon after work to catch a Lady Gaga concert on two days' notice. In my defense, I was hooked up with free tickets and a free room. Don't judge me...
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 23–29
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
I am an ENFJ personality (Myers-Briggs Type Indicator) to the “T” and would love to meet someone compatible. I'm looking for someone who is genuine, who has a good head on her shoulders, and most importantly, who has a good heart; someone who is intellectual and/or spiritual, who understands what it means to be self aware, and yet is down to earth and can have a good time in just about any situation. I'd like to find someone who is intelligent and has depth, yet doesn't take herself too seriously and can just be a silly dork. Is that too much to ask? =)