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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 34-64
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 29
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
5' 11" (1.80m)
Body Type
Rather not say
Buddhism and laughing about it
Doesn’t have kids
Has cats
English, French (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat), Japanese (Somewhat), Russian (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
In the Antarctic high summer I crossed the Anderson Massif from the Bay of Whales to the South Pole. The snow blew like dust across a desert of white. I climbed Cerro Torre in Patagonia and dove to the bottom of a "wine-dark" Aegean Sea, all to realize that what I was looking for was standing right in front of me.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm a man on this earth, alive. Just that: ferociously alive.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
forgetting names and where I parked my car. That, and so much more.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
is a small twitch in my left earlobe that makes me extremely self-conscious. I know because no one's looking at it.

Also, I'm a calm bright warm evening. No, really.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: I like writing that is simply "charged with meaning to the utmost possible degree."

Movies: I like the feeling of sitting in a movie theater right before the film is about to start.

Shows: Yes, but I'm so far behind.

Music: everything, almost.

Food: Cooking with friends.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Something sexy, something sweet... something smart and something sleek... sometimes naps, and sometimes something special and sleep... and all six at once would be super, especially on a Sunday in September with a girl named Celeste or Celine.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why don't you write back? I love that photo of you. Your writing is so honest, playful and smart. Can we meet up? Take a walk? Spin in mutual attraction until we fall in a dizzying rush of excitement and anticipation. My words begin to flutter, my blood beating still until all beating stops and I realize that I'm still sitting alone in my kitchen typing on a laptop.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
playing it by ear, or just playing with my ear.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I like "a good walk spoiled".

Actually, this isn't as true as it was a year ago. One thing that I'm willing to admit is that I'm often thought of as being smarter than the average bear because I have a good memory, even though I just forgot your name. Also, I never loose my keys. This can be annoy, I will admit.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're a calm bright blue body of water or your name isn't Celeste or Celine.