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johnisme86

23 / M / gay / Single

Dallas, Texas

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Ethnicity
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Height
5' 10" (1.77m).
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New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating
Smokes
No
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Religion
Sign
Gemini and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on college/university
Job
Student
Income
Kids
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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I am creative, driven, and intoverted.

My Self-Summary

My names John. I recently moved here from New York. I am from Texas originally but have lived the last 4 1/2 years in NYC. I like to party but I am really driven. I love anthropology, fashion, and fashion theory (not the shallow parts really) and I want to change the way people think about clothes. I currently work trying to convince one of the largest American retailers to move forward. I work in Plano but live in Dallas. I also design costumes for Peaches, the singer. I also enjoy a ridiculous variety of music, riding my bike, running (used to be a swimmer for 8 years( quit after HS), having fun, etc etc..... blah blah blah. I can be very cynical and very optimistic at the same time. I can be akward.

I think everyone should try and do what they are both good at and love doing first and foremost. I think that's what will eventually bring success to people. Too many guys want to be models, make daddy happy, or club kids, or be famous for not doing anything (or doing very little). I am always doing and I don't know if I understand those that just want to consume and not produce. I admire the people who work hard to give back to the world. I wish I could be a doctor, or a scientist, or some sort of brilliant economist but I was not given those talents so I design because that's what I am good at. Hopefully I'll be able to give back to the world through that somehow, if not through the clothing itself then through philanthropic ventures. I don't believe in this American hierarchy of people. A brick layer and a brain surgeon are just as important to society as the other. We need both in order to function in a civilized society, one just takes a lot less training than the other.

I am really driven and sometimes people don't like this.

I do like to party hard every now and then.

What I’m doing with my life

Moving forward.... fast..... I got a really great job, and its really easy, and I get to do great projects on the side, I don't know why I'm not happier about it all though.. My love life however has been crap. I don't know, I just am not into hook ups. I am the guy you take home to mom even if she hates the gays, she'll love me.

I’m really good at

Being loving, my job.

The first things people usually notice about me

I look better in person.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Interests/Hobbies

school, working, nature, sculpture, old things, painting, music, visual arts, fashion , reading, silent & foreign films.....

Music I Like:

Eclectic........ MGMT, Ghostland Observatory, Air, Harmony and Pollution, Fiona Apple, The Beatles, Blondie, Rilo Kiley, Peaches, Bjork, PJ Harvey, Alanis Morissette, Dolly Parton, Rasputina, Nine Inch Nails, Blondie, Ex Models, The Police, The Cure, Clap your hands and say Yeah, Black Lips, Blood on the Wall, Sigur Ros, Moby, Lemon Jelly, Tegan and Sara, Coldplay, Black Eyed Peas, The Cranberries, Feist, Chromeo, Daft Punk, Sonic Youth, Death Cab for Cutie, Postal Service, Jamie Cullum, Diana Krall, The Dresden Dolls, FischerSpooner, ELO, Ella Fitzgerald, Fisher, Frou Frou, Cat, Power, Gnarls Barkley, Franz Ferdinand, The Flaming Lips, Garbage, Mae, The Mars Volta, Moby, Karen O, Yeah Yeah Yeahs, No Doubt, Stevie Nicks, Yoko Ono, Marianne Faithful, The Go! Team, R.E.M., Placebo, Bauhaus, Depeche Mode, Hole, New Order, Kate Bush, New Order, The Smashing Pumpkins, The White Stripes, Wolf Parade...

Films I Like:

Amelie, Dancer in the Dark, Me and You and Everyone We Know, A very Long Engagement, Metropolis, Best in Show.

Literature I Like:

I love Orwell and Zora Neale Hurston when it comes to classics. Alice Sebold, David Sedaris, Lauren Weisberger, Sue Monk Kidd, Agusten Burroughs, Samantha Hunt's "The Seas"........

TV Shows I Like:

I'll watch it occasionally. Like things with cynical humor or a good drama (IE: SVU)

The six things I could never do without

A computer, my family and friends, beer or wine, art supplies, my ipod, my penis probably

I spend a lot of time thinking about

the future and people who I once knew but have grown distant from.

On a typical Friday night I am

It changes every time. Finding something new to experience or hanging with friends.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

what?

You should message me if

you are interested in meeting over a beer or a drink and becoming friends first. I love the other stuff as much as the next guy, but I want to know you first.