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52 Asheville, NC Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 30–80
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 6:39pm
Sapiosexual, Straight, Questioning, Heteroflexible
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body type
Other, and laughing about it
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Less than $20,000
Open relationship
Strictly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a polyamorus sex machine wild whistle and drum playing rainbow tribal hippy and discordian zen practitioner. I spend alot of time and energy helping to create rainbow gatherings. See: Agape is the guiding principle in my life. I have been a vagabond globetrotter. I've lived on 4 continents tho Asheville is my Home (keepin it weird). Been back here awhile now and loving it. I have a couple of sweet, open, honest and ongoing relationships here in this town with good friends. One of whom is sensualrealm on OKC, that fling has been going on 9yrs now (!?!)
more on that: Sensualrealm and I have 9years of open relationship behind us. At this point I solidly believe that that's never going to go away. Even in that last 9years she hasn't always been my primary partner. There are some ways that our minds do not meet eye to eye. We only get an 85% match on here by example. Yet she is still the best lover I have ever had although i've had and continue to have some very very good lovers.

I AM A SLUT!!!! a safe, honest & ethical slut but still....


I'm just on here on a whim for the possibility of more good friends and more good fun. Old friends are truely golden but new ones are at least good silver. ----------------------------------------- I don't believe in "soulmates". We must "complete" ourselves and then share not look for some other to make us whole. We are individually responsible for our own happiness and our own reality. I believe we should all be friends and please one another as we please yet being careful of diseases and bad vibes that can hurt our beloved ones. If you don't sleep with your friends, Who are you sleeping with?... your enemies? strangers?objectified biologic robots?....
I really like sex and believe in being safe. I love to make women cum any way they will let me.......

My tastes are eclectic tho I can be intense in a dom sort of way. I personally am not attracted to causing pain in others; however, when roleplaying I can be anyone. I was a theater major in college and during that process i discovered that I loved acting not for the craft itself, for entertaining others but for the experience of getting into a character's mind. So, i switched majors to psych. I believe that thinking, trying to think like others gives us perspective feeding personal growth.

I am fun, loving, and perpetially horny
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
gathering experience
sharing the agape
breathing tantra
stroking my karma
increasing the peace
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
SEX! with women. kissing, g-spot stimulation, cunnilingus, intercourse. I love it all. Study and practice does make better. (Ask my lovers)
Also Johnny fix-it (my nonsexual alter ego) can fix the house and anything in it.
carpentry, plumbing, masonry, plumbing, electrics. He/I shine best in challenging situations that call for creative solutions.
I'm a very experienced african circle style drummer (for +30yrs.) I'll often carry the asheville community dundun and will usually be there on fri nite.
I play some good tunes on me penny whistle, i always have one with me.
I'm a good friend. I have good active listening skills and sometimes insightful feedback. A useful mediator.
I'm a song carrier for the katuah rainbow people ie i know alot of circle songs.
I'm really good w/ kids good 'ol uncle John
trust- i'm good at this as evidenced by how many house keys people have given me or have told me how to get too. There are other indicators of my trustworthiness truth that I can't go into here.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I got a penny whistle in my mouth
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
sci/fi , fantasy. mostly the brainy kind, the trip your brain kind. frank hubert, neil gaiman, roger zelazny, robert anton wilson, orson scott card, jim butcher. robert heinlien, greg bear, ursula k leguin, marion zimmer bradley, madline leEngle, etc.
movies, the same kind. love anime. old favs outside my perfeered genre. little big man, o brother where art thou.
don't watch very much TV history/sci/discovery channel when i do. (A fan of winchester boys tho, supernatural...)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
spiritual unity
universal love
fooled you, you thought i'd say sex didn't you
rainbow gathering
(see also the award winning documentary "WE LOVE YOU!")
the fate of my species and my world
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
playing drums in downtown asheville
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
The quickest way to give me a hard on is to kiss me deeply.
You should message me if
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you want to communicate
you find me interesting
you want to have fun
you want to go to a rainbow gathering
you need a very good orgasm
you need your house fixed
you know me
you'd like to know me