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johnkokapelli

51 M Asheville, NC

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 5:35pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Anything
Smokes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other, and laughing about it
Sign
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Construction
Income
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
I'm a polyamorus sex machine wild whistle and drum playing rainbow tribal hippy and discordian zen practitioner. I spend alot of time and energy helping to create rainbow gatherings. See: www.welcomehome.org. Agape is the guiding principle in my life. I have been a vagabond globetrotter. I've lived on 4 continents tho Asheville is my Home (keepin it weird). Been back here awhile now and loving it. I have a couple of sweet, honest and ongoing relationships here in this town with good friends. One of whom is sensualrealm on OKC, that fling has been going on 8yrs now (!?!)

I LOVE TRANSFORMUS!!

I'm just on here on a whim for the possibility of more good friends and more good fun. Old friends are truely golden but new ones are good silver. ----------------------------------------- I don't believe in "soulmates". We must "complete" ourselves and then share not look for some other to make us whole. We are individually responsible for our own happiness and our own reality. I believe we should all be friends and please one another as we please yet being careful of diseases and bad vibes that can hurt our beloved ones. If you don't sleep with your friends, Who are you sleeping with?... your enemies? strangers?objectified biologic robots?....
I really like sex and believe in being safe. I love to make women cum any way they will let me.......

My tastes are eclectic tho I can be intense in a dom sort of way. I personally am not attracted to causing pain in others; however, when roleplaying I can be anyone. I was a theater major in college and during that process i discovered that I loved acting not for the craft itself, for entertaining others but for the experience of getting into a character's mind. So, i switched majors to psych. I believe that thinking, trying to think like others gives us perspective feeding personal growth.

I am fun, loving, and perpetially horny
What I’m doing with my life
gathering experience
sharing the agape
breathing tantra
stroking my karma
increasing the peace
I’m really good at
SEX! with women. kissing, g-spot stimulation, cunnilingus, intercourse. I love it all. Study and practice does make better. (Ask my lovers)
Also Johnny fix-it (my nonsexual alter ego) can fix the house and anything in it.
carpentry, plumbing, masonry, plumbing, electrics. He/I shine best in challenging situations that call for creative solutions.
I'm a very experienced african circle style drummer (for 30yrs.) I'll often carry the asheville community dundun and will usually be there on fri nite.
I play some good tunes on me penny whistle, i always have one with me.
I'm a good friend. I have good active listening skills and sometimes insightful feedback. A useful mediator.
I'm a song carrier for the katuah rainbow people ie i know alot of circle songs.
Dancing
I'm really good w/ kids
trust- i'm good at this as evidenced by how many house keys people have given me or have told me how to get too. There are other indicators of my trustworthiness truth that I can't go into here.
The first things people usually notice about me
I got a penny whistle in my mouth
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
sci/fi , fantasy. mostly the brainy kind, the trip your brain kind. frank hubert, neil gaiman, roger zelazny, robert anton wilson, orson scott card, jim butcher. robert heinlien, greg bear, ursula k leguin, marion zimmer bradley, madline leEngle, etc.
movies, the same kind. love anime. old favs outside my perfeered genre. little big man, o brother where art thou.
don't watch very much TV history/sci/discovery channel when i do. (A fan of winchester boys tho, supernatural...)
The six things I could never do without
Breath
Agape
Will
Magic
Fun
Grace
I spend a lot of time thinking about
spiritual unity
universal love
magick
fooled you, you thought i'd say sex didn't you
rainbow gathering www.welcomehome.org
(see also the award winning documentary "WE LOVE YOU!")
the fate of my species and my world
On a typical Friday night I am
playing drums in downtown asheville
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 30–80
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
you want to communicate
you find me interesting
you want to have fun
you want to go to a rainbow gathering
you need a very good orgasm
you need your house fixed
you know me
you'd like to know me