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johnm59

41 M Wilmington, NC

My Details

Last Online
Today – 5:48pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity, but not too serious about it
Sign
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Other
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has kids, and might want more
Pets
Has dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Well here we are, me filling out and you reading a self summary. Thank you for reading, i know everyone is busy and time is short. I find this site to be refreshing and I plan on being completely honest and forthright. this is my first dating site ever. have been divorced for about 2 years now and have joint custody of 2 very special boys. This took quite a while (years). So i am not pining for lost love or depressed at all. no crazy situations or baggage that i choose not to have in my life. i am fresh and new.

During this process i did not pursue dating anyone and have not dated during that entire period until it was all over. I have dated twice after my divorce was final, all chose different paths. I have no shame about the person i am, my past relationships, or my life situation. I like myself and i think that i am a real, neat overall individual. my thinking is i have tried the casual meet someone i work with, or do you know someone approach to dating and have been disappointed my whole life...epic fail. about a 3 years ago i had a complete epiphany about life and my place in it and have benefited completely psychologically.

(You can take a break and get a soda from the fridge at this point)

Welcome back, i am a dynamic, intelligent, insightful person who really enjoys all people and all of their quirks, the ladies included. i look forward to the unknown and this includes knowledge, relationships with people, work, the "future", and love and its place in my life. i have learned what i have always known and is my personal creed, "do not settle". i have done so in the past and it hasn't ever worked out for me and will not work out for pretty much everyone in the world ....ever.

Loneliness is tough. we all want the best for ourselves and if we are good people we want the best for everyone else as well. i wish everyone that reads this the best, even if i am not your answer, i hope that you find this...i know i do. ok, i want to close this self summary with my view on successful love...and this sets the tone as well...you and the person you love must EQUALLY be into each other...not one more than the other. if this is not achieved, love will not last. this is what if have learned to be true, and this is what i strive for and want more than everything. there is so much more i want to share with you but that's the whole point isn't it, whether or not you're into me and i am into you. thanks again.
What I’m doing with my life
I have a very interesting career path. On the flip side i went to school for documentary film production, but now I work in the medical field for in medical photography, record testimonials, and have a big hand in the marketing and execution side of marketing. Film, literature, and art in all its forms are what i strive to fill my life experience with. i only surround myself with people i choose to and am completely OK to being on my own. i have lots of goals and interests. i have achieved a lot of goals i have set in the past and believe my life to be on the right path. i really believe that i can do anything that i am interested in. and i am happy with the way things are...just wish i could find someone who would like to be happy along with me... not really too much to ask, in the grand scheme of things really.
I’m really good at
communication with people. I have an uncanny knack at talking to all walks of life about anything they are interested in or want to talk about. i have no fear in talking to strangers or even large groups of people, and enjoy making people smile or laugh. i also a great problem solver and advice giver if you need it and ask for it.
The first things people usually notice about me
my smile followed by dimples, then comes the laugh. i have several variances of laughter depending on the humor and/or situation but have no control over which form arises at any given time.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
atlas shrugged (rand), any book or short by flannery o'connor, a beautiful truth (doc film), the sorrow and the pity (doc film), i love the horror genre and love to be scared. the walking dead tv show, 30 rock, total sucker for Nature and Nova on PBS. i like punk, irish folk, swing, 80s new wave, and like all food except liver and onions. i have worked quite a bit in restaurants in the past so i mostly cook at home, but i enjoy hispanic and asian themed restaurants when i go out to eat.
The six things I could never do without
peace and quiet (is that two?), happiness, confidence, family, art in all its forms, and the beautiful unknown mystery of a brand new day (everyday).
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How i can improve myself and gain knowledge. It is my personal quest to learn as much as i can about as many things as i can. I have many interests and devote time to all of them. Food and nutrition are my most recent obsessions, but i think about all levels of creativity as well.
On a typical Friday night I am
Relaxing and unwinding. I'm up for most things, but really appreciate stopping and taking a pause from the end of the week. I used to work 2-3 jobs at a time, and generally worked weekends and their nights. For the first time in a while, I can go anywhere and/or nowhere...my choice.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I wish i was a little bit taller, i wish i was a baller, i wish i had a girl who looked good I would call her...i wish i had a rabbit in a hat, and a bat and a '6 4 Impallar.....
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 26–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You made it this far to the end of my profile and still are interested. seriously, congratulations that was a lot of reading. so you should reward yourself. i will, as a rule, respond to all real messages. i am interested in meeting new people as well, so if you have questions, or just want to talk about similar interests that is cool as well. Oh and you have to be a real person for me to message you back, sorry to all the fake accounts, don't have the time for you. have a nice day! I also appreciate when folks try their best and do the full length shots and the most recent picture(s) they can provide. Fool me once shame on you...you know what I mean. Thanks!

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