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34 M Portland, OR

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 27–37
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

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Online now!
Body Type
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English, German (Fluently), Dutch (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I am very passionate about the work I do as well as getting out of the house and into nature!

I am very open, honest and would say people feel comfortable around me--my friends are always amazed at my ability to get perfect strangers to open up to me.

I am both a nerdy social researcher and a creative soul. In fact, balancing those two sides of my personality is a lot of fun!

I love to travel!! I have been lucky in that my research has allowed me to live in Germany, Amsterdam, and Brazil.
What I’m doing with my life
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I am a sociologist with a focus on gender, sexualities, and identity politics. I'm very nerdy about what I do and most people would say it shows!

Because of the type of work I do, I tend to have a lot of hands-on hobbies. For example, I spent the last year learning how to rebuild my old VW bug--everything from the engine to sewing the interior.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Learning something new, photography, building something from scratch, explaining extremely inappropriate topics in extremely inappropriate situations (often part of my job!), working with someone going through a difficult experience.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My blue eyes and laugh
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: The Witch's Daughter, Ready Player One, The Night Circus, I know Why the Caged Bird Sings, Lord of the Flies, Siddhartha, the Razor's Edge, Feminism: from Margin to Center, and, yes, of course, The Ethical Slut.

Movies: Promised Land, The Goonies, The Celluloid Closet, The Princess Bride, Bedknobs and Broomsticks, Real Genius

Music: Jack Johnson, Damien Jurado, and much much more...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My friends and family
The time I spend outdoors
Traveling...cross country or abroad
Chocolate chip cookie dough and fried chicken (judge all you want)
Projects where I get to tinker all day
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I spend a lot of time thinking about how to connect all my different passions, activism, and nerdy love of research with what I'm paid to do.
You should message me if
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If you are creative, open, and honest.