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34 M Portland, OR

My Details

Last Online
Today – 3:36pm
Body Type
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English, German (Fluently), Dutch (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I am very passionate about the work I do as well as getting out of the house and into nature!

I am very open, honest and would say people feel comfortable around me--my friends are always amazed at my ability to get perfect strangers to open up to me.

I am both a nerdy social researcher and a creative soul. In fact, balancing those two sides of my personality is a lot of fun!

I love to travel!! I have been lucky in that my research has allowed me to live in Germany, Amsterdam, and Brazil.
What I’m doing with my life
I am a sociologist with a focus on gender, sexualities, and identity politics. I'm very nerdy about what I do and most people would say it shows!

Because of the type of work I do, I tend to have a lot of hands-on hobbies. For example, I spent the last year learning how to rebuild my old VW bug--everything from the engine to sewing the interior.
I’m really good at
Learning something new, photography, building something from scratch, explaining extremely inappropriate topics in extremely inappropriate situations (often part of my job!), working with someone going through a difficult experience.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: The Witch's Daughter, Ready Player One, The Night Circus, I know Why the Caged Bird Sings, Lord of the Flies, Siddhartha, the Razor's Edge, Feminism: from Margin to Center, and, yes, of course, The Ethical Slut.

Movies: Promised Land, The Goonies, The Celluloid Closet, The Princess Bride, Bedknobs and Broomsticks, Real Genius

Music: Jack Johnson, Damien Jurado, and much much more...
The six things I could never do without
My friends and family
The time I spend outdoors
Traveling...cross country or abroad
Chocolate chip cookie dough and fried chicken (judge all you want)
Projects where I get to tinker all day
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I spend a lot of time thinking about how to connect all my different passions, activism, and nerdy love of research with what I'm paid to do.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 27–37
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
If you are creative, open, and honest.