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johnmccoy007

63 / M / Straight / Single

Sebastopol, California

His Details

Last Online
May 18
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 3″ (1.91m).
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Capricorn but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Education / Academia
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Ht: 6' 3"
Wt: 180 lbs
Eyes: Blue
Hair: Dark Blond
Body Type: Slender/Muscular
Age: 60
Sun Sign: Capricorn (transitioned to next sign)

Attributes: Sincere, trustworthy, flexible, good listener, communicative, reliable, timely, keep my word, a doer more than a talker; strong leader, good follower, athletic, artistic, good example to children, efficient, educated, idealistic, process vs. task oriented, spiritual, non-religious, ethical, generous, affectionate, humble, affectionate, philisophical, sensual, open-minded, physically capable, health-conscious, domestic, sophisticated. Enjoy mentally stimulating conversation.
Past Career Roles: Counselor, Mentor, K-12 Teacher, Musician, Music Teacher, Administrator, Administrative Support, Government Civil Service, non-profit community education, Class B Driver, Traffic School Instructor, Accounting Clerk, Tutor, Community College Instructor, Pro Writer
Interests: Partner Dancing; Dance Music, i.e. most styles including World Beat, Performing; Singing; Hiking; Beach camping, walks; Dining Out; Classic Movies; Festivals; Local Plays; Spiritual Retreats; Meditation; Massage; Travel Overseas; Social Gatherings; Swimming; Camping; most outdoor and co-ed team sports activities.

Do not watch T.V. Not into watching sports or most Hollywood movies. Into experiencing life to the fullest.

Qualities that I bring to a relationship:

Faithfulness
Kindness
Equality
Helpfulness
Respect
What I’m doing with my life
I spend alot of free time on my band project composing and arranging, handling promotion, rehearsals and gigs. I regularly workout at the YMCA and occasionally hike, or go on field trips with groups. I like Cafe Gratitude or the Science Cafe at Coffee Catz. I occasionally attend weekly men's meetings with a non-profit association dedicated to self-education & community service projects. I work as a caregiver and as a substitute teacher/tutor. I am financially stable and own a home in WA that I rent out. I am preparing to do some traveling overseas this year. I volunteer every so often and attend spiritual retreats, self-growth workshops and practice Simran (from a more evolved practice originated from Sikhism). I attend a weekly meditation group periodically. I have many interests including books about self-empowerment.
I’m really good at
Most sports; music; teaching; writing; driving; verbal communication; organizing; research; fitness/exercising; science, math, dancing and even cooking.
The first things people usually notice about me
Tall, attentive, on time, pleasant personality, open, and non-egotistical
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Most self-help, empowerment & spiritual, philosophical books; classic movies from the silent era to contemporary, especially comedy; drama or action movies based on true events or about historical figures. I have watched most all films. I don't watch network television. I like Italian, Mexican, American, Japanese, Seafood, & Health food mainly, including a variety of other types of food specialties. I can cook and occasionally prepare raw recipes using a food processor.
The six things I could never do without
Ice Tea w/ lemon; my electric guitar; playing musical instruments; being able to dance, walk or sing; loosing my freedom; physical exercise; passion; love.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How the world could be a better when we as a civilization finally overcome our continual focus on the fulfilling of our ego-driven motives by spiritually-evolving beyond the passions for greed, lust, anger(rage), vanity, and attachment and have a world w/o wars, famine, pestilence, racism, or money. Without real thought, we cease to create; and rather just pro-create instead. The world has the combined technology to change the current paradigm to create an advanced metropolis not like what was depicted in the old silent film by the same name. The Venus project offers one possible solution.

I also spend time thinking about travelling abroad. Would like a conscious relationship. Studying Toltec wisdom.
On a typical Friday night I am
If I'm feeling upto it, I might go out dancing or to an event. Or, I might just go to the gym and go out afterwards for a small meal downtown in Santa Rosa. Then, I will go take care of whatever needs to be done at home. I try to stay busy even when I'm home, like doing internet research.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I think that some women's feet look sexy.
I’m looking for
  • Straight girls only
  • Ages 35–60
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You are interested in the artistic/musical realm, are adventuresome, into equality among the sexes; spiritually focused rather than money or career driven; not into the bad boy type or alpha male. Are not commitment phobic. Are open to philosophy like the 5 Agreements.