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46 M Portland, OR

I’m looking for

  • Guys and girls who like bi guys
  • Ages 18–70
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Jan 20
Native American, Hispanic / Latin
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Full figured
Strictly vegetarian
Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Doesn’t want kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), Sign Language (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Trying to work through a horrible break up right now, just looking for friends to hang out with.

"Disobedience, in the eyes of anyone who has read history, is man's original virtue. It is through disobedience and rebellion that progress has been made."
Oscar Wilde

I find it frustrating on these sites that at this point in our culture that they only offer binaries to choose from, rather that be gender or sexuality. I also think that they need to learn the difference between polyamory, poly-fidelity and polygamy. I am not gay or bi, if i had to use identity words it would be queer, pansexual, green anarchist, sexual activist, theory nerd LOL. I love engaging conversation about most topics as long as it's intelligent, I have a dark sense of humor and definite opinions.

Looking to make friends. I love the outdoors, music, making art, activism, laughing, growing food, films, and reading. Wanting to explore more in depth learning of primitive skills and survival tactics.

I feel that hegemony is the true evil in our world and the systems that are continually being put in place to bring our ability to feel dis-empowered are overwhelming. I do think people believe in 'justice' and 'fairness' and will fight for it, want it, but in being an activist can bring experiences of horrible things trying to survive in systems that annihilate autonomy, environment, senses of community, and critical consciousness. So the tactics have become more creative and thoughtful for me; I will always be the first willing to be at the barricades but I have learned that art, creativity, language can create empowerment and solidarity that is needed for change. It is this logic (and hope) that is only keeping me from total self implosion, I am very extreme when it comes to my politics, especially around environmental and social issues. Just a friendly warning, cause I can be unfriendly about it. hehe

"The older one grows, the more one likes indecency"
Virginia Woolf

“Intelligence always had a pornographic influence on me."

"For every patch there is a hole"
My Mom
What I’m doing with my life
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I am an artist and a recent graduate with my MFAIA. Check my website out and let me know what you think.
I work as a massage therapist & with folks that have developemental disabilities.

i really am interested in many art movements and polotics and how everyone navigates around the two. my ex partner started an amazing project called The Art of Dismantling Check it out, there are some amazing interviews by artist who are using their mediums to be political.
I’m really good at
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massaging, laughing, conversation, kissing. painting, and advocating for others.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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some favorite authors/books:
Michel Foucault
bell hooks
Dion Fortune
Derrick Jensen
Some of my favorite books:
That’s Revolting: Queer Strategies for Resisting Assimilation and Nobody Passes: Rejecting the Rules of Gender and Conformity
Edited by Mattilda Bernstein Sycamore
Abnormal: Lectures At The College De France, 1974-1975, Discipline and Punish: The Birth of the Prison , The History of Sexuality: An Introduction Vol 1.2.3. Madness: The Invention of an Idea by Michel Foucault
Endgame Vol 1 & 2 by Derrick Jensen
Simians, Cyborgs, and Women: The Reinvention of Nature, Primate Visions: Gender, Race, and Nature in the World of Modern Science by Donna Haraway
Bodies That Matter: On the Discursive Limits of "Sex by Judith Butler
I love the Anita Blake Vampire Hunter Series - Laurell K. Hamilton
Harry Potter 1-7 - J. K. Rowling
Transmetropolitan - Warren Ellis
V for Vendetta - Alan Moore
the Watchmen - Alan Moore
Swamp Thing - Alan Moore

some favorite music:
Thee Silver Mt Zion Memorial Orchestra
Godspeed You! Black Emperor
Kate Bush
Cocteau Twins
Antony and The Johnsons
Other Lives
Etheric Double Soundsystems
Siouxsie and The Banshees
Fleet Foxes
Cinematic Orchestra
This Will Destroy You
Dead Can Dance
PJ Harvey
Joanna Newsom
Horse Feathers
Sparrows Swarm and Sing
Resident Anti-Hero
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I spend much of my time thinking about our environment and social climate, and just find myself horrified as we continue to live a life of exploitation of our planet, animals and other cultures. I become very dishearten at times with all this and yet continue to try to make a difference in wanting to be an educator, activist and embracing primitivism.
Other topics floating in my head at all times are identity politics, survailence, hegemony, nature, love, intimacy, sexual activisim and magic.
You should message me if
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You are an activist, you love to garden, you love art in its many mediums, if you think gender and sex is bunk, you like engaging conversations, if you are a theory nerd, you found anything interesting in my profile, you are sex positive, you can teach me things. If you want to identify what the bars of the cage are, rather than what is just going on in the cage. You want to be in the forest more than a city.