All of my prior girlfriends believed in monogamy. I am a good friend, trying to learn how to be a great one. I drink alcohol (rarely to excess, I am an omnivore. Everything alive feels pain and eventully dies, then it is eaten by something. So if you are a vegatarian, vegan, fruitopian or whatever get over it. I love a good philosophical discussion, even a heated one. Pain is pain, pleasure is pleasure. I have enough pain in my life without trying to 'heighten' my awareness of pleasure by using pain.
I prefer to talk on the phone over typing. I am patient enough to go at whatever pace you are comfortable with.
I am happy, fun, and Smart