I am sexy, smart, and shrinking.
My Self-Summary
I seem to be the only Seattle-native who dislikes coffee.
Adventurous in some ways and a home-body in others.
I have made a lot of changes to my life in the last few years as I
am moving towards a more spiritual and healthy life. One result of
this: I lost 70 pounds over the last 3+ years and intend to lose a
lot more. Please understand that I have always been comfortable
with and in my body and I did not lose the weight to be thin. (I
have neither the genetics nor the desire to be skinny.)
I believe in having big dreams. I want to constantly learn from
experiences and the world around me. (And many other fuzzy and
undefinable concepts.)
I try to surround myself with folks who are smart, who challenge me
to do my best, who call me on my bullshit. And especially with
people who know they are sexy, people who know I'm sexy, people who
can make decisions. People who are interested in self-examination
and/or improvement.
I am a drama-free zone. I am happy to be around people who use
drugs/alchohol lightly. Or who are sober. I don't have time for
users. My heaviest drug is chocolate.
What I’m doing with my life
Staying on top of my mortgage. Running my business. Reengaging my
sense of wonder. Learning to believe in the supernatural and
deities after 25 years as a confirmed rationalist.
Actively looking for an _available_ man who is seriously interested
in a poly relationship.
Since I know that finding such an amazing man will take a
while...
I'm also looking for new friends, in and out of bed.
I am interested in
exercise and healthy living.
I’m really good at
Sex. I know that sounds cocky (pun intended) but really. I have
given the subject of sex a great deal of study and um, practical
learning.
Cooking. I am a great cook!
Cooking and entertaining are a big part
of my social life. I am a
foodie. Over the last few years I have
learned to eat healthy and eat out a lot less.
Friendship. I am a good friend. I am very
loyal and good at helping out when needed
and stepping away when I'm not. I'm a good listener.
The first things people usually notice about me
Given the prejuices of this culture: my size. I am a woman of
substance, large, voluptuous...you know:
fat. I am also hot and sexy and an amazing
lover. So please just get over it, world!
My favorite books, movies, music, and food
I enjoy Japanese
anime, science fiction & foreign
movies. My all time
favorite movie is
The Secret of Roan
Innish directed by
John Sayles.
I like most music (no country/western or head-banging please) but
especially
Celtic
music and
reggae. I just discovered the Canadian
group
Great Big
Sea and am completely in love with them. I like local bands
like
Gaia
Consort and
Pint and Dale.
I read a lot of
science fiction, my favorites
are
Bruce
Sterling and
Ursula LeGuin. But I also read
non-fiction, mysteries, classical fiction, you name it. Also smut
or
erotica if you
like the polite term.
I loved
baseball
as a kid, watching games on TV or going to the ballpark. I have
started to get back into it recently and I would love to have
someone to go to
Seattle Mariners games
with.
My favorite food to eat out is
sushi or Italian. As a great cook I love
to entertain whenever I can.
Misc words and concepts:
Tea The Teacup Vancouver travel NASA Space travel SciFi Science Fiction Douglas Adams Neil Stephenson
Accounting
kink kinky bdsm d/s submissive
The six things I could never do without
Family, books, chocolate, sexual pleasure (getting and giving),
technology especially my
android, the beauty of the
Pacific
Northwest, the stream next to my house.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
My friends and family. How I can support them in what they are
trying to accomplish.
The future. I am concerned about all the usual
liberal love buttons: the
environment, global warming, the United States stupid foreign
policy, the fact that we have given up on
space exploration,
pro-choice. I
volunteer with a organization which gives working poor women needed
healthcare so I can sleep at night in my comfortable middle-class
bed.
My business. How to make it succeed even more.
On a typical Friday night I am
Meeting friends for coffee or dinner at my house.
Or in bed with a sweetie.
Or watching anime or movies with a friend.
Or at a sex club meeting new people.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit here
I completely love the fact that the OK Cupid test defines me as
"The Playstation-Random Gentle Sex Master (RGSM). Easy to turn on.
Hard to beat". (I am NOT "hard to beat" if you ask nicely!)
You should message me if
You should message me if:
You want to meet a sexy, funny, attractive, woman who can carry on
an intellegent conversation and is sexually adventurous (read
kinky) for wild
monkey sex and great conversations.
AND/OR
Want to go to a
Seattle Mariners game, sit in
the cheap seats and watch
Ichiro.
AND/OR
You are a man who is ready to start a primary relationship, ideally
a poly one.
You should NOT message me if:
- YOU OWN A CAT!! (serious allergy, sorry) OR
- You are too busy to have new friends or lovers in your life.