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jolesu

37 / F / Straight / Single

Lakewood, Ohio

Her Details

Last Online
Today – 2:19pm
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 4″ (1.63m).
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly other
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other
Sign
Cancer but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Medicine / Health
Income
Offspring
Has a kid
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
I am pretty easygoing, and tend to be on the quiet side. I love to hang out on my porch in the summer, visit with friends, check out live music or a fair/festival. I don't have much free time and some of it is reserved for solitude. I can't function without ample solitude, time to reflect and plan and also just to empty my mind at times.

I am a tattooed single mama, and I care deeply about community. I grew up in New England, and my folks are still there, so I am kind of an orphan around here :) You hear the saying "it takes a village" and being a parent I have to say, it is very true. Luckily I have a wonderful village here in NEO who have stepped in where my family can't.

I am looking for a man who will be my best friend, as cliche as that may sound. I want someone who will make sure I know I am cared for. No games, no guessing. I am looking for someone to lean on someone in tough times and someone to celebrate with when times are good. I am very loyal so if you are good to me, you will be well taken care of.
What I’m doing with my life
right now...learning how to sew, grow my own food and raise a happy child.
I’m really good at
I am a domestic goddess, really
The six things I could never do without
flip flops
daydreaming
my little girls laughter
quiet time
the library
dark chocolate
I spend a lot of time thinking about
social justice, community, how to live a healthy and balanced life. And my to-do list. There is always a to-do list.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 30–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
If anything I have said sparks your interest and you aren't looking to play any games. Mama aint got time for that! I am very selective so make your message memorable! If you are cute, that helps too ;)