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49 M Portland, OR

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 37–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and has cats
English, French (Okay), German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Hello. :-)

I'm a southpaw. Born and raised in NYC. English and Physics major. Carpenter. Musician. Spent some years in the foothills of the Blue Ridge Mts., acquiring various learn-by-doing skills. But the urban and modern world feels like home in a way and I came to Portland to find the right mix of the two.
What I’m doing with my life
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Learning how to take better care of myself, body and soul...Fixing up or building houses here in Portland...Playing fiddle or guitar, weeding or planting the garden, making a fire, relaxing with netflix, or a book...Building a life here in Portland, piece by piece.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Accidental puns. Building things with my hands, abstract thinking, listening, expressing affection.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My eyes. Or my haunches. I suppose.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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So many! Currently by the bedside is the latest Murakami, some Barthelme stories, A Suitable Boy, by Vikram Seth, and a history of Lewis and Clark. I've lived at both ends of that trail now, so I wanted to learn something about the 200 year old journey.

American TV: Deadwood, The Wire, Breaking Bad. Game of Thrones. Walking Dead. I can't believe I like a zombie show! But these cable serials have such distinct characters, and excellent writing.

For movies, good sci fi epics, or smart dramas. Most anything by Woody Allen and anything with Bill Murray is worth watching.

I sometimes play fiddle music (Appalachian and Cajun) so a lot of my listening is to those genres. I love old Jazz, Bix Biederbecke, Louis Armstrong. On through Miles Davis. Ray Charles! Rock'n'Roll, from Buddy Holly and Jerry Lee Lewis to The Rolling Stones, Sonic Youth, Radiohead and Modest Mouse. And Americana, Iron and Wine, Wilco, Shovels and Rope, etc.

Love to cook and to cook for others. I like to find tasty things to do with whatever's coming out of the garden.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Love, Beauty, Smiles, Touch, Light and Air.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Form and function. When it comes to design, I find it helpful to ask, how will it be used? What does the body reach for and where? Character and plot. It's the English major in me..
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Cooking up a storm. Watching a movie. Walking up to Alberta with a friend for a pint.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I seem to burn through socks at an alarming rate...
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're cool, smart, and will be beautiful to me in some sublime and ineffable way. You get real pleasure out of intimacy. The heart and the mind and the body are connected in a pretty miraculous way, and you're able and interested to explore that with another. Kind-hearted, loyal, quite a wish-list! Just be you, and we'll see if there's something there. :)