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45 Seattle, WA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 30–50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Mar 2
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Not at all
Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from space camp
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Has dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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Living just for today. I believe we create our own realty; you reap what you sow, so you might as well see the joy in life.

I openly wonder why people won’t take the last doughnut from the box at work; instead they keep cutting pieces off of it until there is an inedible sliver left.

I am the one you want on your team when the machines take over we will fight and we will win.

I am not afraid to cross the street in the middle of the block.

I have a sense of humor that borders on extreme goofiness. I love to figure out how to throw in a "thats what she said"

I am energetic outgoing and solid.
2 on the kinsey
GGG (at least thats what i have been told)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Seeking love and light, finding out just how much difference I can make to the world, one smile at a time.

"You've seen your future and filtered through your past, from your present state it may not look too great if you could have your future generate your now You'd probably sit back, relax, kick off your shoes And just allow"
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Cooking, I love to feed people, the more the better. I’ve owned a catering business, but prefer to cook as a hobby. One day though I WILL have my own breakfast joint. I make the best biscuits and gravy you’ve ever had.

Figuring stuff out, I solve problems for a living; it’s just what I do.

New ideas, I am full of ideas. Really just ask (i dare ya), I pride myself on being able to come up with inventive solutions to the most ridiculous or mundane problems.

Being silly; I love to have a good deep conversation, and I also like to have discussions that end in "that's what she said" I can turn any subject into an innuendo.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That I am better looking in person (apparently I don’t photograph well) and i refuse to use 10 year old pics in my profile.
If they have not seen me in a while they comment on how much weight I have lost.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Watching TV is a rarity for me. If i do watch TV I like most cooking shows and sports, that's about all the TV I watch.
I read allot, King, Heinlein, Koontz almost every fantasy Fiction series I can get my hands on, the longer the better, I hate waiting for books in a series to come out so I tend to wait till they are complete.
I have not been reading as much fiction lately, so on my night stand currently is “forget the roses give me the thorns”, “two Knotty boys” , “training with Miss Abernathy”, ”rope, bondage and power exchange”
I love food! If you get a chance to come over and have dinner I more than likely will ask what your favorite thing is to NOSH and I will proceed to create it.
I really identify as a butt rocker in remission, I own about 750 gb of music so everything from Coltrane to the butt hole surfers, I was at the first Metallica show in Seattle and saw sublime in a tavern in Everett. But mostly I flip around the radio and find stuff I like, although if I hear led zeppelin stairway to heaven again, I may poke my eyes out.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My kids
My partner
Intentionally left blank
A sharp knife
Whatever my current passion is
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
If I can deal with the guilt;
the guilt of knowing that every time i message someone and they don't message me back, a kitten dies.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I drive a mini van and i call it my "truck".
You should message me if
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Do it for the kittens! :-)

If you are interested in sharing this adventure we call life, finding new and interesting places to eat, hiking to the top of mountains or teaching me something new.

If I sent you a message, it's because I think we can have at least one good, interesting conversation that will take us through a meal or coffee. I might also think you're in some way a good match, but I really don't think anyone can tell without meeting - and if i am going to meet someone, I want to have a good conversation with them.

If you are often described as any combination of smart, quirky, outside the mainstream, a freak, thoughtful, happy, left wing, well read, kinky, activist, compassionate, outspoken, punky, spunky, poly... we'll be great friends at least.

I am in an ethically non-monogamous relationship with my wife\partner of 16 years, Ropekitty . You should go check out her profile. She is amazing, and loves to chat with people.