Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
My grandparents met on okcupid so I thought I'd give this a
Name's Jon. I dream big, I worry little. I'm a family oriented guy
living my dream, making jokes, and rolling with the punches. I'm
originally from Chicago but I've been to and have lived in many
beautiful places in the world (lived in Madrid, Spain & Manaus,
Brazil and been to 21 countries). I want to continue to travel and
explore different cultures to help me grow. I'm passionate about
making a change in the world, a positive change. Are you
Curiosity is my motivation, and empathy my guide, on a quest to
discover "what does this button do?" Wherever my destination, it's
the journey that matters so I'm taking the scenic route!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
What is the meaning of life? To be happy and useful ~The Dalai
☤ Being the best doctor I can be. Graduated with 3 degrees from
Loyola, working on my 4th now. I think it's important to give back
to those who are less fortunate than us or those who just need
someone to talk to. I go on surgical medical missions for kids. So
far I've done missions to Vietnam, Guatemala, Peru, and Brazil. I
do a ton of volunteering in my community, I play soccer, and I take
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Languages. I'm trilingual. Hablo español (castellano) con fluidez e
falo português (brasileiro) fluentamente também....e io capisco um
po d'italiano! Capisco più che parlo. Busco a alguien que también
habla otro idioma (preferably Spanish).
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I've heard the most common things guys lie about online is salary
Rest assured that my 5'9" is without inches added. I'm actually
5'9.75, let me round up?
I make 500 bajillion zillion dollars a day, okcupid doesn't even go
that high, hence the --
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
These are good ice breakers for our first date.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my passport (really everyone says that...mine has stamps AND
stickers (no glitter though)), a good bed to sleep in, emergen-C
and my lime/honey/salt daily shot (I haven't been sick in 5 years,
coincidence? I think not), spicy guacamole, my music/movie cloud,
& my framily
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
why we aren't more intimate as a society...like why don't we
kiss/hug each other like the Latino culture when we greet each
other. I hug patients... the power of touch is amazing!
why people ignore questions posed to them. I hate when I ask
something and it is ignored or the subject changed
why it's so hard to find what I'm looking for. I am looking for
someone fun and interesting to be honest with me and just tell me
exactly what you want from the beginning, no inhibitions. Having an
emotional & conversational connection is just as important as
the sexual connection. Someone flirty, knows how how to have a
great time and doesn't hold back would be perfect. If I can't be
honest with you and you can't be nonjudgmental, what's the point? I
mean, if we can't tell each other what our expectations and kinks
are, it's going to fail, let's not go that route!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Stealing some cars, getting busted on a few counts of racketeering,
and then making some blueberry muffins
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm a cuddle monster!!! Rawwwwr!!
Also, I lose interest very easily when someone stops asking
questions in a conversation (like messages here). Show you're
interested like I will towards you!
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
1) You are funny; (2) you are smart; (3) you love being challenged
and out of your comfort zone; (4) you think we'd find each other
interesting and attractive (please be in shape); (5) you are
spontaneous, affectionate, adventurous, and love to travel)
(6) you put a lot of energy into your conversations
(messages, texts, phone calls, face-to-face), indifference is a
You miss 100% of the shots you don't take, so just do it! (I
don't spend the time to use the quickmatch feature, so might as
well put your big girl pants on ...and please don't say
something lame like "hey, how are you?" or some emoji....you can
easily copy and paste that to every guy). Ask some questions,
what's the point of messaging if we're not going to get to know one
another! Also, no pics no talk, this is online dating, why do I
even need to mention this!?!
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