Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hi! Im not sure what to say about myself? People often say I'm
spiritual, I used to teach yoga, I like to think about The Big
Picture. I try to think outside of the box. I rarely drink or take
drugs. I used to- now I look for other ways to widen my horizons,
like meditation, painting, sex. I don't mind other people drinking
or getting high as long as they stay good company. Often I'm
serious but when I relax I can be silly and have fun. I seem to be
a complex person- in some ways I'm very tolerant, in others i'm
uptight. sometimes I'm chatty and confident, sometimes nervous and
My ideas about why Im going on a dating site keep changing. First i
thought i just want casual sex, then I thought writing a profile
would be a good exercise in self awareness. Next i thought I might
find people who are interested in open relationships. Finally it
seems maybe I could just try and make friends... the only thing I'm
clear on is that I DONT want to get into a monogamous relationship.
Thats because I've found it much much easier to stay friends with
ex lovers from open relationships. And that long term connection is
important to me if I.m gonna make a big emotional investment.
On paper a fling should be okay, but I can get emotionally
attatched. That sounds like Im clingy, does.t it? probably I am. I
had a difficult childhood, which Im working on in counselling. I'm
still learning to deal with strong feelings and to trust
The more I write the less it seems like other peoples profiles that
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I love the outdoors, I have an allotment, I'm learning Tai chi, I
love spending time with my son. I sing in a choir, I love live
music- living in liverpool is great for that
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
probably the beard when i have one! : )
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
film-My own Private Idaho
book- Zen and the art of motorcycle maintenance
The hero with a thousand faces
Little house on the Prarie
music-first wave punk-The clash, elvis costello
indy guitar - pixies, Andy White
folk, bluegrass, cajun
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
how does everything fit together?
where I want to live
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
sometimes i go to yoga class, sometimes to see a band; I more often
go out mon and tues to see live music
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