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5' 10" (1.78m)
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Hinduism and laughing about it
My self-summary
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I'm an intellectual-creative type but mostly enjoy just getting along.

I grew up in a philly suburb, when to school at Villanova and lived in different parts of the city since. I know my share of spots in the city.

I'm pretty independent but enjoy shooting the shit and spontaneous conversation about pretty much anything. I probably feel most myself outside around a fire pit at night with people who also "dig". It's a term I can't get away from recently, sort of reflecting both the enjoyment of life and the willingness to work it.
What I’m doing with my life
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I studied philosophy in college and upon exiting proceeded to take many turns. Bands, instrument repair workshops, farms, yoga teacher-training. This is just my story, so if you're someone whose had similar experience or rather has known all their life what they wanted to do, I can appreciate both experiences.

I decided about two years ago web development would be a good flexible choice for myself as a career direction and I began to self teach myself how to code and design. After free-lancing and working odd jobs, i found a solid one close to me that I'm enjoying. It's quite a relief after years in constant reflection of vocation.

Although, I've become a little more settled I still have a huge appetite for life. I'm always writing words and music and would love to be able to do a tour eventually. I read a lot, these days mostly books on meditation. Psychology and mindfulness studies have a strong appeal to me but there's a lot to take in between all sorts of modalities. I'm currently just taking it in.
I’m really good at
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I'm my own worst critic when it comes to music but if I can put it aside for a second, I'm a good musician. I have a healthy respect for technique but for me, music is emotion and I can access the many sides of life in myself and play them. My style jumps between rock and folk while craving to be psychedelic (not quite there).

I'm also really good at being patient. As much as I experienced frustration trying lots of different things during my twenties, I do think I was patiently working through a lot of my own stuff. I work hard, and efficiently, and will occasionally have the, 'I'm suppose to further along' thought, but hell, I'm also here to enjoy it and I do.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I've heard people mention that I'm extremely mellow, I like to think I just choose what to get excited about.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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My favorite fiction includes Herman Hesse, Richard Brautigan, Keourac. Poets Kenneth Rexroth, Denise Levertov, E.E. Cummings. However, I've mostly read non-fiction and yes I give credence to freud, marx, jung as well as stuff like upanishads, Ken Wilber or the strangest book on consciousness studies you've ever come across. This is just stuff that suits me, I don't need to meet someone else that reads that same stuff, that's often kind of boring.

I like movies and shows but it's actually in this category, I'll actually go much less intellectual. Sure I can enjoy art films and have plenty of favorites but the age of 'netflix and chill' is sort of upon us. I use TV and movies to unwind and enjoy adventure and comedy.

Music I love. I go to the philadelphia folk festival every summer and it's essentially my favorites part of the year. I'm thinking about going to the Austin Psych fest this April. I love Bowie, Dylan, Byrne, Young. I dig shoe-gazers like Jesus and Mary Chain and My Bloody Valentine. I might have a slight obsession with the Brian Jonestown Massacre.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Devotion, Family, Friends, Thoughtful Conversation, Nature, Music
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Environmentalism, Social Change, Music, Philosophy, Religion, Spirituality, Politics, Art, Psychology and Unimportant Bullshit. Oh wait that's all one big thing.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
exhausted from my previous weeks adventures.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Might as well get it out there: I'm might be somewhat of a neurotic when it comes to relationships. There's a lot there as I'm sure there is for many but I've so far much preferred to explore things for myself rather than with somebody else. I've been out of the dating game for some time and so I'll undoubtedly come off rusty. It's compounded by my desire to do it "right", which to me is to pursue someone who I'm really interested in for all of the reasons. *Relax and be courageous* is my mantra. All this said, I'm not even necessarily looking for something serious, just something highly enjoyable and peaceful.
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you want to.