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  • Ages 23–37
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  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Aug 27
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Graduated from law school
Rather not say
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs
My self-summary
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My name is Andy. Instead of putting generic things that apply to everyone, I think it may be more effective to over-share:

I like college sports, especially football, and spend too much time and money during the Fall season going to games. I also get irrationally upset when my team loses, and I am in a bad mood for days. I don't have cable, and tell people that I barely watch any television, but really I end up watching a lot more shows than I am comfortable with admitting to myself. Especially ones that are embarrassing.

I run and workout sporadically throughout the year depending on how motivated I am, and if I have any goals or races I am trying to do. I am not a "runner", however, and tend to find people who call themselves runners are as smug and dis-likable as Canadians. I am very close to my family, but if we start dating then my sister will almost immediately find something wrong with you. I never listen to her opinion.

I love Karaoke, but can barely carry a tune. I throw myself over-the-top parties, but they are never for my birthday and have occasionally involved little people. I love to travel, and have technically been to four continents. I am a very touristy tourist when I travel, and have no shame in that fact. I want to visit all of the continents except Antarctica, since the travelers who do go there are just showing off.

I read a lot, and even listen to audio books when I run and workout instead of music. I also drink fairly often; usually with friends and occasionally when reading. I like almost everyone, but judge people by what they read and what they drink. I like to go to bars, but I am getting to the age where I do enjoy live music, but not as much as I used to, and would rather be at a place where I can talk with my friends.

My greatest attributes are that I am a very good friend and I am an excellent dancer. I appear taller than my actual height, but don't come across as funny as I really am. According to the questionnaires I hand out after sexual encounters I am generally rated favorable. I am a happy person and upbeat person, enough that it has been off-putting to a few people. And all of this is just the tip of the iceberg. If you are still reading this far shoot me an email, I promise I am a nice guy. References upon request.
What I’m doing with my life
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I am working, traveling, and spending time with my friends and family. I just moved to Tulsa, Oklahoma.
I’m really good at
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Being a good friend, dancing, making bad jokes, coming up with really random trivia facts...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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+Books- There are a lot of books so I will name favorite Authors that I can think of off the top of my head- Highsmith, Vonnegut, Miller, Dubus, McCourt, O'connor, Foer, Marquez, Eggers, King, Follet, Fitzgerald, Stienbeck, Rowling, Irving, Waugh, Ellis, Jordan, Pynchon, Sedaris, Chabon, Dahl, and Bukowski...
+Movies- 80's and superhero
+Shows- sitcoms and reality
+Music- I listen to the radio
+Food- Asian, Tex-mex, Indian, Pizza, Home cooked.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I am not big on possessions and lived without almost any for a few years, so I will go with a generic; friends, family, good food, good booze, good books, and a copy of the 2002 Guiness book of world records.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
If I have super powers... my theory is this; how do you know you haven't developed the ability to control objects in that last freak thunderstorm if you don't try.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
On the road trying to, and arriving at, my weekend destination. If I am in Tulsa I can be found out at dinner, grabbing some drinks, or out at a show or event.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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At 33 I have found acceptance and love from family and friends. I have learned who I am and learned to accept and love that person, and then question it again. I have been asked to speak at weddings and funerals for dear friends. I have accomplished many things on my bucket list. I have built up a professional career and then thrown it away to chase a dream. I have lived a very full live so far, but privately I still don't consider myself a grown-up.
You should message me if
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You have read this far and you haven't been scared off. I return messages, and I even try not to be mean and sarcastic in some of them.