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30 M New York, NY

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 6:14pm
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
When drinking
Judaism, and laughing about it
Pisces, but it doesn’t matter
Working on masters program
Science / Engineering
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and dislikes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), Thai (Poorly)

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My self-summary
NYC --> Westchester --> NYC. I enjoy traveling (really, who doesn't?), playing guitar, reading, avoiding crowds, and brewing beer with my neighbor (hippity hoppity). I spent a year living in Thailand and backpacking around SE Asia, spent a year working on the Obama campaign ('08), and now am doing the full-time work/part-time grad school thing.
What I’m doing with my life
By day I help to "green" affordable housing in the city. By night I toil in the library, or, to put it more accurately, bar-hop around Morningside Heights. I often wonder why I ever left Thailand, and think maybe I should just sell all my crap and move back. Then I remember they have no bagels :(
I’m really good at
Not panicking
The first things people usually notice about me
My biceps? My cut abs? No, probably my sense of humor.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Simpsons, Seinfeld, Peep Show (British comedy, you should check out). I can't get in to current dramas though (Breaking Bad, Game of Thrones, House of name it, I don't watch it). I just don't have the attention span and can't make the commitment. Plus, real life is dramatic and entertaining enough. I mean really, you can't make this stuff up!

David Mitchell, Douglas Adams, Bill Bryson, David Sedaris, Vonnegut, Fitzgerald, Hemingway, and Kerouac are among my favorite reads. I mostly read news and magazines though. Usually my week turns into a race to finish the last New Yorker before the next one arrives.

For music: Anything from Radiohead to Dexter Gordon to Shostakovich. I cannot get into country though. I've tried, but no.

I like all food, but I hate mayo. Actually, I fear it.
The six things I could never do without
Coffee, my Fender, NPR, a short walk to a good bagel, sunshine+hammocks (counting that as one), The Macallan.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Where to stand on each subway platform for minimal steps to the stairs.
On a typical Friday night I am
Running like an antelope, out of control.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have like, ten half-started, 2-page or less, attempts at travel memoirs saved on my computer. Also, I think there are a few sitcom starts on there as well. Insomnia can lead to some strange things.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 21–30
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You like strong coffee, good beer, pretending to be a snob, the Op-Ed section, and would prefer Couchsurfing over a five star hotel.

You can help me with my Cost Benefit Analysis homework...or my fantasy football team.

You play bass guitar (not required but thought I'd shoot for perfection).

You're from NY...or share our similar neuroses.