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46 M Quakertown, PA

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Last Online
Today – 1:58am
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Catholicism, but not too serious about it
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
So, here I am once again trying to think of what enticing words to write to somehow pique someone's interest to the point of initiating contact. Truth be told, I hate this. This part of my life should already been in the rear view mirror, but yet I still find myself here, auditioning. Looking for that leading role that has become so elusive. Here is the backstory:

Suddenly, I find myself single. I don't want to be single. I want someone to love me. Someone to kiss when I come home from a hard day's work and make the day worth while. Someone to hold and have all the stresses of the day melt away. Someone to wake up to every morning. And yes, someone who would kick start my heart each and every day. Could this be you?

I would say that I'm pretty easy-going and accepting to anything. I am not judgmental. Will not play head games or have any drama in my life to speak of. I will answer all e-mails.

Although I was trained as a scientist, I currently use a knife in my profession and I'm very good with it. Dexter has nothing on me. Yes, it was meant to sound cryptic. Seriously though, just ask if you want to know.

I do not yell at the TV or overturn furniture during sporting events. In fact, I generally do not even watch entire sports games on TV. Just seeing highlights on ESPN is enough. The only fantasy league I would consider joining would hopefully involve someone I meet on this site. SOMEBODY PLEASE HELP ME WITH THIS!! I do follow NASCAR, been to some races at Pocono, but not recently. I also watch pro wrestling. Blame my grandparents for that obsession. Was the only events I got to see during childhood.

I am looking to expand my social situation. What does that mean? Looking to find "the one", "a one", "some one". I don't have any particular checklist as to what exactly I am looking for, just want to be with me. Or at least be willing to take a chance. I am also looking to make new friends so if dating isn't an option, friendship certainly could be. Above all, I am looking for acceptance.
What I’m doing with my life
Wondering what happened. How did things get so confusing?
Working day in day out, with a few days off in between. Needing someone to fill those days now.
I’m really good at
Being there for anyone who wants or needs my help. As far as talents go, I usually can figure out things pretty quick or will think about it until I do (which is not always a good thing). I can be very supportive and loyal.
The first things people usually notice about me
That would be my extra long red hair when it is not hidden. My quiet demeanor in regards to something not physically seen.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Not much into reading other than the newspaper.

Not into watching much tv, but have several series on dvd should I get the urge. I can watch anything, but time constraints prevent me from following primetime shows.

Love music, especially bands fronted by women. 90s alternative, evanescense, halestorm (This was the last concert I seen, in Dec '12 awesome. Three hour show with no opening act!!) Been to a lot of concerts. Some of those include the Cranberries, Blondie, Alanis Morrisette, Tori Amos, Garbage, Veruca Salt, Liz Phair. Follow the theme? Can listen to about anything though. Classic Rock, Alternative, Pop, no rap or Death Metal.

Love Italian food, American staples, I am willing to try anything as long as it isn't too spicy. I haven't eaten at a typical fast-food place in at least eight years.
The six things I could never do without
tea (not a coffee drinker)
my family
this website?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What is everyone on this site looking for? Am I so far off the norm? Why is it so hard to type words on the screen and hit send?
On a typical Friday night I am
I would like to say out and about with someone, but reality is recovering from the workweek. I need someone to help me with this.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I will talk with anyone if approached/messaged, but am generally reclusive otherwise. Exception being all the messages I have sent here.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 30–60
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
you want to be different than 99.99% of the users on here.