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  • Ages 21-35
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Last online
Yesterday – 8:20pm
Hispanic / Latin, White
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
5' 8" (1.73m)
Body Type
Average build
Catholicism but it’s not important
Doesn’t have kids but wants them
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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Hi, how's it going? My name's Josh. Most would say that I have a quick wit and a sarcastic sense of humor. I like to be challenged and thus I have a small tendency to instigate arguements, not angry arguements mind you, more along the lines of empassioned banter. I think I just enjoy the art of conversation and conversations are often times much more entertaining when the people engaged have opposing points of view. Below I have listed some interests and likes, but in all reality the determination of a successful relationship on any level doesn't have to do as much with both people liking Johnny Cash and Chinese food as much as having compatible personality types. So to that effect I can tell you that I like to laugh and try not to take things too seriously (although I sometimes fail), I consider myself a realist and try to view problems and situations from all angles before making a decision (although once again I sometimes fail) and I try to make sure that whatever I'm doing brings me some sort of joy or satisfaction and if it's not then I re-evaluate why I'm doing it. If you're interested in learning more you need only ask and I will be happy to prattle on about myself, as long as you are willing to contribute a little about yourself as well. Talk to you soon...

General interests would include the outdoors (though I rarely get out anymore), the gym (I swear I'm going start hitting it hard week), shooting, history, politics, random facts, travel, football, baseball, pool, bowling, chess, boardgames, Halo, reading, mini-golf, movies, current events, social trends, etc. I like to learn, meet new people and try new things-especially food.

I am contempletive, enginuitive and hungry
What I’m doing with my life
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I graduated from Sac State in 2009 with degrees in Criminal Justice and Sociology. I currently work in the private security industry at a tech firm. It's actually a surprisingly good spot, I'm enjoying myself and learning quite a bit over there. Besides that I've been doing the standard friends and family thing.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I have a bevy of non-marketable skills. Most notably I'm good at making people laugh and cheering people up, conversley I also have a knack for pissing people off.
The first things people usually notice about me
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It's hard to say, people don't usually tell me and I don't usually ask. Let's see, I apparently have expressive eyebrows and an undeniably large nose so I suppose that those would be the first things that someone would notice.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: I like Kurt Vonnegut jr, JRR Tolkien, Arturo Perez Reverte, Catch 22, The Power of One, Angels and Demons, Da Vinci Code, John Steinbeck, The River of Doubt, The Tipping Point, Freakonomics, 1776, To The Last Man, I recently started reading The Song of Ice and Fire Series (Game of Thrones) and it's basically taken over my life.

Movies: Boondock Saints, Man on Fire, The Big Lebowski, Kiss Kiss Bang Bang, LOTR, Tombstone, Sin City, Monty Python and the Holy Grail, Dodgeball, Dark Knight, Star Trek (new ones), Old School, Super Troopers, Forest Gump, Pulp Fiction, Reservior Dogs, Big Trouble in Little China, 13 Assassins, Kill Bill, Gods and Generals, Bad Boys, Memento, etc. My first job was at a movie theatre so there are hardly any movies from the late 90's/early 2000's that I missed.

TV: Dexter, 24, The Shield, Always Sunny in Philadelphia, Game of Thrones, All in the Family, Firefly, The Walking Dead, Psych, Top Shot, QI and for some reason random competition shows that in real life I have little to no skill or experience in such as Top Chef, Face Off and Ink Master (I can't cook, draw/sculpt and have no tattoos but I'm addicted to these shows).

Music: Rock mostly but I listen to a little country and oldies too. Metallica is the greatest band ever to walk the earth. other notables are Godsmack, Johnny Cash, Tom Petty, Disturbed, Marilyn Manson, Nickelback (shut up I like them), Marty Robbins, Testament, Slayer, Rob/White Zombie, Nightwish, Sirenia, Kittie, Slipknot, Steppinwolf, CCR, and Rammstien.

Food: I love food and enjoy discovering new delicacies. I stumbled acrossed Pho not so long ago and have had a passionate love affair with it ever since. I also have a weakness for Sushi, burritos and just about anything with chili on it.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My sense of humor (it may seem a little arrogant but I do crack myself up)

My friends. Specifically my best friend. I may seem cheesy but when I sit back and think about it he is inexpendable above almost all others.

people to make fun of


My taste buds

Passion/Drive/Spite-These are the three factors combine to form a powerful synergy within me to which I attribute all of my life's successes and probably a few of my failures.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I'm still not quite used to having my Friday nights so free. Generally it's spent with friends at the movies, pool hall, shooting range or living room. My back up is catching up on TV or whatever book I'm reading.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I like disco music...Don't judge me.
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