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54 Berkeley, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 35-60
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 8:24pm
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
5' 9" (1.75m)
Body Type
Atheism and laughing about it
Has kid(s) and doesn’t want more
Has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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I'm a smart alec computer geek, both intense and mellow. Twenty years in California has worn off a lot of my New York edge but not all of it. As Calvin said of Hobbes, "On the quiet side. A bit peculiar. A good companion, in a weird sort of way."

I'm a happily married man in a marriage without sex. My wife says, "Go have fun. Be safe." It took a few years, but here I am.
What I’m doing with my life
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Loving it. Raising the world's most wonderful daughters, working on the house and garden, climbing trees, making stuff out of wood, learning electronics, etc.
I’m really good at
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not answering this question. Oops.
Perpendicular parking.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My pointy beard. :-)> It keeps people from noticing my pointy head.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: I'm a sci-fi and fantasy reader mostly, but I mix it up. Erikson, Niven, Tolkien, Martin.
Magazines: Economist, Handyman, Entertainment.
Movies: Casablanca, Wonderful Life, Toy Story. Anything from Marvel.
Music: rock and roll, old and new, classical, and jazz.
Food: Chocolate, sometimes as chips in cookies. Scotch, sushi, Belgian beers.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Family and chocolate.
A few of my other favorite things (that I could do without ): Coffee! Cheese, internet, trees, scotch, cats, and the sun, moon, and stars.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Life is short, carpe diem!
Why I always stay up too late.
What's next on the to do list.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Pleased that I can stay up late, and then going to sleep early.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I am not really left handed.
I just took up the trumpet again. Haven't touched it since fourth grade. Apparently I need to practice more frequently.
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