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35 San Jose, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 23–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 5:26am
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
A little extra
Mostly anything
Graduated from university
Entertainment / Media
Rather not say
Open relationship
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
My self-summary
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(so much of what can be said here seems repeated in the rest of the questions...) Originally from the Midwest, have been on the West Coast since 2001. I work for a non-profit theater company and love what I do... most days. I'm inquisitive and always interested in learning something or someone new.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Switched jobs a couple of years ago and am much happier professionally. I work too much, and can get too stressed, but I also give 110% in everything I do. Now i'm looking to find people to help me enjoy the downtime and give some reasons to get out of the office!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I think it is a constant search to find all that I'm good at, but i'm damn good at my job, believe i'm a pretty great friend, and am good at doing the little things to make others happy.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Lately, it's been the blue streak in my hair, but it's probably my hair in general that catches people's notice.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I love anything by Laurel K. Hamilton and The Dresden Files. I watch a lot of Netflix TV (Dr. Who, Eureka, Warehouse 13, Burn Notice, White Collar - just started Blacklist - it's brilliant) and will listen to pretty much any music. I love diner food/home cooking or fine dining equally.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Good Food
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
everything. I rarely stop thinking....
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
depends on the week, but if i'm not a work, i love to make dinner and curl up on the couch with a good movie. don't get me wrong though, i love going out to dinner, movies, shows, but tend to avoid the Friday night chaos if i'm on my own.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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i'll answer any question you have the courage to ask. life is too long to try and keep things hidden.
You should message me if
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you are looking to have some fun, whatever that may be. I will try damn near anything twice!

Just to be up front and honest, I am in an open relationship, but i don't have any expectations for new relationships, i just want to see where they lead, be it to friends, lovers or enemies, or something in between

update: Am interested in finding a bi girl who wants to play with my partner and i. Not a requirement if you are just interested in meeting one on one, but we are open to it!