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joshy_civis

30 Wayne, PA Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 22–32
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 2:55pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body type
Athletic
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Judaism, and laughing about it
Sign
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Sales / Marketing
Income
Status
Single
Type
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English, French (Okay), Russian (Okay)

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My self-summary
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I used to live in DC and be part of the political party machine. Things change!

I am an avid news consumer (and critic). For the record, my favorite news man is Jon Stewart, and Fareed Zakaria is my hero.

I have a physics degree, but I have no desire to work in a lab. I do enjoy knowing how things work.

I have played water polo on and off for about 7 of the last 10 years. No horses were drowned in the making of this sport. Noses may have been broken, though.

I like to use the word "whom."

I'm a pretty big nerd. Somehow that word means something different to everyone and I fit the description no matter what.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I tried working with the State Department, but they gave me the axe. I work for a small tech company as the marketing guy. So I'm an ace with internet searches, and usually I use my powers for good.

Sometimes I volunteer for political campaigns or social organizations. Examples? Planned Parenthood, Flouride Free Philadelphia. I'm both excited and jaded about the upcoming DNC in town.

I invent new games like "urban bobsledding" or "cars attack!" or just generally get myself into mischief. It usually involves gambling, drinking, or some other deadly sin.

(I resisted the urge to write "wasting away one minute at a time" so apparently I'm also becoming less cynical)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
1. adapting to new situations.
2. fixing computers and the little black internet box
3. talking in a Russian accent, comrade
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My dimples and my totally insatiable love of sci fi

Strange enough, many people think I look like either Javier Bardem or Jake Gyllenhall. Strangers ask me about this often, but they are usually 40something women. Update: 40something women are less in my life now, Javier took a non serial killer role, and I grew my hair out. So I get Javier from lovely okc dates looking to stroke my ego now, and it totally works.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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My favorite book is best described as whatever I am currently reading. Live in the moment. Currently: A Higher Call. Next up: I could use a suggestion because I am tempted to borrow a law textbook at the moment.

I'm a big fan of NPR in the kitchen and TED talks while on public transit.

I have several "favorite" movies. For example:
comedy: Wedding Crashers, Supertroopers, The Big Lebowski
sci fi: V for Vendetta, Star Wars, Inception, The Matrix
drama: Fight Club, Big Fish, Forest Gump
and pretty much any comic book movie

My favorite band of all time is The Who. My favorite song is Behind Blue Eyes. Outside of classic rock, I like Massive Attack, The National, Tool, Flogging Molly, Muse, Fun., Green Day, Thievery Corporation, Airborne Toxic Event, 21 Pilots, and plenty of guilty pleasures. I go to live shows pretty often and some good ones were City Rain, Bear's Den, Jessica Hernandez and the Deltas, and the old standby West Philly Orchestra.
I'm currently listening to The Wombats and The Joy Formidable.

I love to eat food cause its so yummy. I call myself a fat kid cause I like to eat like a "growing" 13 year old boy. I am not in fact a fat kid, but I enjoy eating, making, shopping for, and talking about food. I could seriously eat anything at anytime. I am infamous for not getting on the subway without having a snack first.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
what's for dinner?

How to clear my mind

strategery
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
doing the same thing I do every night: trying to take over the world

I kind of miss the days when I had a gay roommate who made every Friday night big gay dance club night. I really hated it then, and I really miss it now.

Nowadays I'm probably eating some weird pizza and drinking on a stoop in south philly.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I love musicals. In another life I would have had a stage mom push me to be a star.
You should message me if
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...Sunday is the most boring day of the week

...a coffee/bookstore/laundromat sounds like a winning business idea

...you have a crush on rocket scientists