Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am a goddess.
all i ever want are the cuddles.
21. Vegan. Queer. I make books. Addicted to dying hair and
modifying the body. I write everyday. Wrestle me and then take me
to a poetry slam. I'm affectionate and isolated all out once. I
write better than I speak and it has never done me well.
hairy sex positive feminist as fuck misandrist toppy-switch who
will curb stomp you if you even think of touching my body unless i
tell you to touch me.
i like mouths and fleeting eye contact
almost everyone reminds me of a poem
being an ally is a full time job so get the fuck out if you wanna
talk to me about how hard it is to be a decent fucking person
I am becoming a massage therapist who specializes in treating
survivors of sexual assault.
my life force, what reminds me of why I'm so grateful for this
life, is the smell of the sea on redwood trees.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Learning about self care and intersectional oppression. Fighting
rape culture and hiding in the darkness of my bed. Humbling myself
the more I educate myself. Working hard to learn. Learning self
defense. Reading more books than I have time for. Adventuring the
bay area and finding new book stores to spend my time in. Scowling
at WASPS and sleazy men until they back away from me. Doodling
lavender on everything I own. Sweating and exerting myself until
I'm nothing but wet skin and panting breath.
going to school and work 7 days a week: touching bodies, healing
bodies, being touched and healed.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
finding discarded photos, decorating with dead flowers, patch
making, cuddling, crying, petting your animal friends and never
making eye contact with you.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
5 feet with a big personality.
i roll fat spliffs
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: I don't do books, I base my favorites off of authors.
Bukowski. William S. Burroughes. John Fante. Shakespeare. Neil
Gaiman. Miranda July. Andrea Gibson. Staceyann Chinn. Katie
Wirsing. Edgar Allen Poe. Ernest Hemingway. Patrick Suskind. Sonya
Renee Taylor. Audre Lorde. Bell Hooks. Judith Butler. Jeanette
Music: Cult-like lover of Tom Waits. Leonard Cohen. Chris Smither.
Tegan and Sara.The Smiths. Jeff Mangum. Opeth. Dredg. Pineapple
Thief. Hecate Enthroned. MGMT. The Weeknd. Funeral Mist. Dresden
Dolls. Beirut. James Blake. Arctic Monkeys. Fair To Midland. Bon
Iver. Iron and Wine. Bikini Kill. The Butchies. The Front Bottoms.
You Blew It! Bad Books.
Food: Artichoke hearts and white wine.
Movies/Shows: X FILES. Buffy. Charmed. Really bad CSI shows. Rumble
Fish. HP (1-7). Phantom of the Opera. Howl. Sailor Moon. Boondock
Saints. Boardwalk Empire. Chansons De' Amour. Trashy Vampire shows
are my weakness. Dexter.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My janky-ass type writer.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
2. How anyone could ever think that provocative clothing is an
invitation for sex or that it's made for men's enjoyment.
3. What Tom Waits was thinking when he made Dead and Lovely.
4. The many lives I could have with each daily decision I
5. Is there anything universally right? Or is it all really
6. How I have very little answers.
7. How to avoid feeling stagnant.
9. Ridding myself of jealousy.
12. How many letters I want to send.
13. the life of a hummingbird
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
smoking spliffs, petting cats, staring up at the moon or street
lights, scraping my knees. trying to make the words come out.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are not sexist, homophobic, racist, ableist.
You think chivalry is just another way of coddling women.
You are a feminist.
you're into my softcore-poly lifestyle: friends who cuddle and like
to hold hands with this cutie who will play with your hair and
still give my partner soft kisses. you're into platonic
demi-romantic friendships without possession or gross shit.
You want to smoke spliffs and create art or play card games.
if you want to take me to a show or an adventure.
If you have a camera and wanna take pictures of my butt.
DO NOT MESSAGE ME IF:
You think that drunk sex is consensual sex
Or if you disagree with the above statements.
I don't want to have sex with you, do not try to convince me.
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