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21 San Francisco, CA Genderfluid


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  • Ages 18-28
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My details

Last online
Nov 19
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5' 0" (1.53m)
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Special Diet
Doesn’t have kids
Has dogs and Has cats
English, Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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I am a goddess.


all i ever want are the cuddles.

21. Vegan. Queer. I make books. Addicted to dying hair and modifying the body. I write everyday. Wrestle me and then take me to a poetry slam. I'm affectionate and isolated all out once. I write better than I speak and it has never done me well.

hairy sex positive feminist as fuck misandrist toppy-switch who will curb stomp you if you even think of touching my body unless i tell you to touch me.

i like mouths and fleeting eye contact
almost everyone reminds me of a poem

being an ally is a full time job so get the fuck out if you wanna talk to me about how hard it is to be a decent fucking person

I am becoming a massage therapist who specializes in treating survivors of sexual assault.

my life force, what reminds me of why I'm so grateful for this life, is the smell of the sea on redwood trees.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Learning about self care and intersectional oppression. Fighting rape culture and hiding in the darkness of my bed. Humbling myself the more I educate myself. Working hard to learn. Learning self defense. Reading more books than I have time for. Adventuring the bay area and finding new book stores to spend my time in. Scowling at WASPS and sleazy men until they back away from me. Doodling lavender on everything I own. Sweating and exerting myself until I'm nothing but wet skin and panting breath.

going to school and work 7 days a week: touching bodies, healing bodies, being touched and healed.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
finding discarded photos, decorating with dead flowers, patch making, cuddling, crying, petting your animal friends and never making eye contact with you.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
5 feet with a big personality.
i roll fat spliffs
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: I don't do books, I base my favorites off of authors.
Bukowski. William S. Burroughes. John Fante. Shakespeare. Neil Gaiman. Miranda July. Andrea Gibson. Staceyann Chinn. Katie Wirsing. Edgar Allen Poe. Ernest Hemingway. Patrick Suskind. Sonya Renee Taylor. Audre Lorde. Bell Hooks. Judith Butler. Jeanette Winterson.

Music: Cult-like lover of Tom Waits. Leonard Cohen. Chris Smither. Tegan and Sara.The Smiths. Jeff Mangum. Opeth. Dredg. Pineapple Thief. Hecate Enthroned. MGMT. The Weeknd. Funeral Mist. Dresden Dolls. Beirut. James Blake. Arctic Monkeys. Fair To Midland. Bon Iver. Iron and Wine. Bikini Kill. The Butchies. The Front Bottoms. You Blew It! Bad Books.

Food: Artichoke hearts and white wine.

Movies/Shows: X FILES. Buffy. Charmed. Really bad CSI shows. Rumble Fish. HP (1-7). Phantom of the Opera. Howl. Sailor Moon. Boondock Saints. Boardwalk Empire. Chansons De' Amour. Trashy Vampire shows are my weakness. Dexter.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Record player.
A voice.
My janky-ass type writer.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
1. Sociology.
2. How anyone could ever think that provocative clothing is an invitation for sex or that it's made for men's enjoyment.
3. What Tom Waits was thinking when he made Dead and Lovely.
4. The many lives I could have with each daily decision I make.
5. Is there anything universally right? Or is it all really subjective?
6. How I have very little answers.
7. How to avoid feeling stagnant.
8. Polyamory.
9. Ridding myself of jealousy.
10. Gender
11. Sex
12. How many letters I want to send.
13. the life of a hummingbird
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
smoking spliffs, petting cats, staring up at the moon or street lights, scraping my knees. trying to make the words come out.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have a lot of secrets.
You should message me if
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You are not sexist, homophobic, racist, ableist.
You think chivalry is just another way of coddling women.
You are a feminist.

You want to smoke spliffs and create art or play card games.
if you want to take me to a show or an adventure.
If you have a camera and wanna take pictures of my butt.

You think that drunk sex is consensual sex
Or if you disagree with the above statements.
I don't want to have sex with you, do not try to convince me.