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35 Portland, OR Non-binary, Genderqueer, Agender, Androgynous

Non-binary, Genderqueer, Agender, Androgynous

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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 30-99
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 15
Queer, Pansexual
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
5' 10" (1.78m)
Special Diet
Not at all
Atheism and it’s important
Dropped out of University
Might want kids
English (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
♫ My previous playlists have been overrun with ads, so here is an ad-free playlist on Soundcloud. If you like it, we might get along :). ♫

Genderqueer, poly, feminist, vegan, anarchist, atheist, curious about the world hippie seeks older similarly identified with no pets for primary partnership or other compatible folks for other types of relationships (including friends, which is mostly what I am looking for right now).

My health has been worse than usual lately (sleep issues, digestive issues, allergies), so I'm looking for lower energy hanging out. I am usually up for talking and walks.

I enjoy dancing (contact improv), song circles, running, cooking, hugs, cuddling, writing, drawing, and computer programming. I have a particular style that involves simplifying complex things as much as possible while retaining their essence, playing with ideas and objects, and looking behind the scenes and at how stuff works. I've lived in intentional communities before and would like to somehow end up in a vegan intentional community with both urban and rural parts.

I'm not into harsh or sarcastic communication, fat phobia, patterns of behavior that reinforce male dominance, violence, intoxication and drugs, references to deities, horror movies, or pets.

I came up with a brief test of basic human decency that is compatible with a wide range of ideology; to pass, you should unconditionally support (as a minimum) the following three policies: 1) Close (anything resembling) the School of the Americas 2) Release 50% of the US prison population today 3) Provide at least basic housing, food, clothing, and medical care for all people. Also you should be able to quickly name at least one other major human rights issue in the US today.

I like meeting most people (even if just once or occasionally) and prefer to meet in person quickly if it seems likely that we would get along. So if you are interested in meeting up somewhere ☕ then let me know when and where would work for you. If I click the "like" button then I have read your profile, but many people don't until they get a match so I'll usually let you write first once you've read this unless you have a similar note on your profile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
* Ojibway histories by Warren, Kohl, and Hilger
* Heimskringla by Sturlusson
* The Temporal Lobe and Limbic System by Gloor
* Zen Flesh Zen Bones, particularly Centering
* Animal Oppression and Human Violence by Nibert

* David B. Johnson
* Kawase Hasui

* Winged Migration
* Stomp the Yard
* Cirque de Soleil
* The Sound of Noise (expanded version of this)
* Shortbus

Music Albums:
* Any by Cris Derksen
* Medúlla by Björk
* S&M by Metallica

Cris Derksen's new album Orchestral Powwow is wonderful! You can listen to the full album on her site. ♫

Food 😋:
* Fruit (Bananas, Berries)
* Chocolate Soy Milk :/
* Kale or Bok Choy
* Potato
* Squash
* Dill Seeds
* Vinegar

First heat squash seeds on medium-low with a little salt. Cut up bok choy, potatos, and squash and pressure cook 25 miutes with dill seeds and vinegar and water to cover. Save the green part of the bok choy to add at the end. This is most of my diet these days; as much as I wish my digestive system would let me eat more stuff, it never stops tasting delicious.

Full size bok choy is usually the least expensive organically grown veggie and luckily also one of the tastiest. The secret to preparing it is to wash each leaf individually because it collects dirt really easily. At least until you get to the tiny new leaves in the middle, which you can usually wash together and taste wonderful raw. The green part makes an excellent salad too (really, it all tastes wondeful raw or cooked).

I have a broad view of vegainsm and will not knowingly purchase any products from these companies due to human rights violations:
Dole, Chiquita, Del Monte, Nestle, Cargill, ADM, Hershey, Mars, Barry Callebaut, Coca-Cola, Walmart.