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23 Arcata, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 18–30
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Nov 9
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Atheism, and laughing about it
Scorpio, but it doesn’t matter
Working on university
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm Justin. INFP

I identify as queer because bi doesn't suit my interests and I think it's broader than some classificarion like pansexual. I feel secure in my maleness, however, reject destructive notions of masculinity.

I'm introverted, independent, I enjoy dry humor, and I'm a walking literary cliche.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Currently studying English with a teaching emphasis at Humboldt State. I'm becoming a more adventurous person and for once I have "a life."
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Writing, cooking, bad puns, being the annoying PC guy, general snobbery.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My height, that I'm well spoken, and "brooding" or "dedicated to my moroseness."
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Writers: James Joyce, Henry Miller, Haruki Murakami, Charles Bukowski, Kurt Vonnegut, F. Scott Fitzgerald, Ernest Hemingway, Virginia Woolf, Toni Morrison, Milan Kundera, Cormac McCarthy, Dostoevsky, William Faulkner, Kerouac, Nietzsche, Sartre, Camus, William S. Burroughs

Movies: David Lynch, Harmony Korine, Paul Thomas Anderson, Kubrick, Godard, Wes Anderson, Sofia Coppola

Television: Twin Peaks, Cosmos, Peep Show, The Office, Firefly, A Bit of Fry and Laurie, Mad Men, Arrested Development, Archer, Black Books, Dr. Who, Frasier, Parks and Recreation, Sherlock, Louie, Freaks and Geeks, Look Around You, It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia

Music: The Smiths, Xiu Xiu, Slowdive, Titus Andronicus, Real Estate, ajj, Defiance Ohio,Tom Waits, Morrissey, Deerhunter, Paranthetical Girls, Atlas Sound, The Mountain Goats, Pains of Being Pure at Heart, The Brave Little Abacus, Sonic Youth, Cap'n Jazz, American Football, Broken Social Scene, Swans, Modest Mouse, Animal Collective, Panda Bear, Nick Cave, Neutral Milk Hotel, Dirty Projectors, Television, This Heat, Velvet Underground
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Coffee, the internet, cats, aesthetic pleasures, books, and kisses.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Politics, Race/gender/class, Books, writing, language, logic, perception, values, sex, aesthetics,the universe, philosophy, ontological/epistemological arguments, you know, light stuff.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Gallavanting, loitering, drinking, or lurking the Internet.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I don't have many secrets.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
-You like sad boys
-You'd like more melancholy queer friends in your life
-You aren't a fascist, capitalist, sexist, ableist, etc
-You want to get a beer or coffee sometime
- You want to go on a hike or whatever.