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28 Oakland, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 20–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 12:05pm
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Other, and very serious about it
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Dropped out of university
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I will talk about food until you are fed up.

I joke a lot and tend to be sarcastic though I am a sensual and caring creature who connects with people deeply.

My taste in arts will either drive you away or make us good friends that appreciate alternative and unusual creations.

I believe that we have the right to live our lives anyway we want as long as we do not cause harm to others. That's pretty much it on what we ought to do. Wanna choose a nomadic lifestyle I'm gonna be right there in the wild with you.

I value skills and creative thinking over the ability to memorize facts.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Appreciating it. Yugen is an amazing feeling.
Variety is the key. I like to meet new people. Explore hobbies of others. Learn about new ideas and master skills. Create. Play the guitar.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm a creator. I pick projects and build tools to atchieve best results. Example.. Example.. I have built a smoker to enhance the flavor of my handcrafted sausages. Also turned a bunch of old bulky pieces of furniture into new more functional ones.

Enjoying little things.

I break apples in half with my bear hands. Eearrrrh!

My to do lists are two-dimensional. Still working on how to apply more dimensions.

I cook amazing things completely from scratch. True story. It often involves doing research and aging/fermenting certain ingredients.

I like to take long exposure pictures of the city at night. Yeah, I think I'm good at it.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
on headphones: I don't have a favourite genre. Nick Cave, Einsturzende Neubauten, Tool, NIN, Radiohead, Joy Division, Bibio, Gramatik, Bonobo, Noisia, Thievery Corporation, Mulatu Astatke, Godspeed You! Black Emperror. I am also one of those who like Bjork, Tom Waits and narly jazz. I felt weird finding out that I like Queen B by Lorde but it is a good song after all.

on a screen: Waking Life, Everything will be OK by Don Hertzfeldt, The Daily Show, Pulp Fiction, Night on earth (and other Jarmusch's movies), Big Lebowski, Twin Peaks, Mulholland Drive, Mary and Max, Harold and Muade, Harold and Kumar go to a White Castle. And my favorite shows are Bob's Burgers, South Park, Six feet under, Breaking bad, Dexter now starting Boardwalk Empire.

on paper: Ishmael, Slaughterhouse five, Crime and punishment, Hundred years of solitude, Tipping point, Lucky Peach.

on canvas: Beksinski, Dali

comedy: Bill Hicks, Louis CK, Sarah Silverman

food: if you ever need to make up with me get me some repulsively stinky cheese. I dig good hall-in-a-wall ethnic restaurants. I don't eat fast food nor highly processed foods loaded with preservatives.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Human interactions.
Redwoods. There are few left.
Original artists. Ohh, you mind opening, running your own path, 'insane' individuals. You come far in between.
New projects.
Simplicity. Why to overwork yourself?!
Perfectionism. Because sometimes it's worth it to overwork yourself!
Ladies that wear little to no make up.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
If I should make pickles, brew beer or bake chocolate beet cupcakes.
Nature and nurture vs free will and emotions. Conciousness. Psychology. Social micro and macro behaviors.

I also think a lot (or more feel while thinking about it) that life is just a ride. And all we should do is to enjoy it in a non-selfish way. Experience as much as we can and don't get down over little things.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Who knows when that's gonna be.
I like to have people over for dinner parties, games and movies, go to an open mic at the starry plough or stand up comedy at the brainwash.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I like to brush my teeth in the shower. Phew... Private thing revealed.

I tend to TMI people. I don't ask uncomfortable questions but I would share anything about my life once I know you. So if you live in a world of taboo go enjoy it somewhere else.

I hate the alfa-male/slut double standard.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You have a skill you want to share with me. Either it's restoring wood, blowing glass or balancing a spoon on your nose. You want to play giant Jenga, backgammon, cards against humanity or 52 pickup.
You want to bake bread, make sausages and cheeses, brew beer, ferment or distill.
You like to plant vegetables and herbs, play music, take pictures, hike.
You think for yourself and question authorities. Also you are not afraid to question yourself.You want to drink wine and talk about life, nature and modern philosophy.
You are somewhat an introverted individual, self learner and overachiever.
"You must have an earnest desire to save the world..."

Tell me what's the most fun thing you get to do these days!